How do you know if a man is a player or confused?

Answer 1

they are all players at some point

Answer 2

This question is pretty vague. Too bad you weren't more specific. A player is a man (or woman, I suppose) who isn't willing to commit to any one partner and dates/has sex with different women. That's my understanding of the word, anyway.

A confused man is someone who may or may not want a relationship, doesn't necessarily want to play the field, and may have trouble communicating what he feels to a potential partner. The reason he may have trouble is because he is not in touch with his own feelings and so doesn't really KNOW what he is feeling and so can't express himself. He also may have trouble understanding his partner's feelings. This doesn't mean he's a player, or it could mean that he is. You'd have to get more information from this kind of man to know where they stand on these situations. If you remain confused after dealing with such a man, drop him. Life's too short to be trying to have a relationship with someone who confuses you. Let them work out their stuff in a therapist's office and not on you.

Answer 3

Thats diffcult.U can tell that he is not a player if he can really explain himself and his purpose.Some ppl confuse being a player wit havin a purpose.If a man's purpose is lookin 4 true love den he must want to try new things whether it b kissin a girl den datin another.He needs to try around until the "one" is found.

Answer 4

Guys will tell you anything to get what they want and then tell you they aren't liars. Players will do this and try to make you think they love you. Don't believe the words, believe his actions.

Answer 5

Care to elaborate on this question? Any specifics you could add so we can give a more informed answer? Because this question is so generalised that we're all just as confused as you!

Answer 6

ask him, we're all confused.