I hav dis bf,he like me but i dont like him.Being so nice when he asked me 2 b his gf i said yes.I am unhappy but i dont wanna break his heart and tell him how i feel.Help
2006-12-22 15:45:41 · 8 answers · asked by Gizelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are miserable, then you need to let him know that it isn't working out. You know that someone else can make him happier because your heart isn't in it.
2006-12-22 15:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weather you want to or not your gonna have to hurt his feelings. Its better you break up with him then let him go along thinking you like him. Tell him that you just don't like him that way and you want to end it. Don't keep him as a friend, he's just gonna get jealous when you have other guys around. So, Hurt his feelings and move on. Its pretty simple, plus you know its what has to be done.
2006-12-22 15:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by HOVO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the old saying goes: Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind. Better to tell him now that you're not interested rather than lead him on and let him get involved in a relationship and then break up. Tell him kindly and gently, but tell him.
2006-12-22 15:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jim N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through this and i ended up getting hurt. MY ex-girlfriend pretended to feel things for me and for a long time i believed her. I guess she kind of got annoyed of being around me and when i was really in love with her she broke up with me. It hurt a lot and i knew it wouldn't of happened if she had told me no when i asked her out or if she had told me before i really got close to her. I reccomend that you just tell him. explain to him that you're really not feeling him and that you don't want either of y'all to get hurt. It's better than making someone live a lie.
2006-12-22 16:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by Alex 4rm Eastside Fort Worth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be honest, if you really dont like him then you need to break it off right away. The longer you wait the more it will hurt him. Good luck in all you do!
2006-12-22 15:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you are obliged to get into the relationship huh? Oh well, I think you just got to tell him if you want it fast. Well, or you just have to say that you dont really feel that the chemistry is there between the two of you when you first started dating....
2006-12-22 15:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by yewny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont do it now, ur bf will get so attached, it'll hurt him more later. It will hurt, but he's gotta learn thats life. And on a side note, shame on you for misleading him, and getting his hopes up.
2006-12-22 15:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to stay in the relationship will only end up hurting you both,be honest straight up,better now then later,I'm sure he'll move on in time
2006-12-22 15:54:04 · answer #8 · answered by TOM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋