2006-12-22 15:36:46 · 24 answers · asked by X 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you talked to her? regarding what is really going on?
Withholding sex or anything really - is indicative of a controlling personality. If the relationship is still new - then go seek some therapy together - and if that is not helpful than run for the hills. There are "adults" out there that would not do such am immature thing.
2006-12-22 15:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should not have so many arguments. Believe it or not girls are not just there for sex. We have feelings. She sounds like she deserves someone who actually cares about her. Maybe a blow-up D_ll would be your answer. You will never have to argue with her and she will never withhold sex when you want to be insensitive. Go ahead and move on like 50% of guys do when they do not know how to be a real men.
2006-12-22 15:48:56 · answer #2 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a female I don't think either partner should withhold sex for any reason. Maybe it down and talk to her about how you feel and see where that goes, but I don't think breaking up or moving on with your life over this would be a shame unless you try to figure things out. She is wrong for using this against you.
2006-12-22 15:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by Marina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! women are not like men, u can't just hurt our feeling and jump into bed with us, women particularly need a lot of love from her man,Although as a general rule the relationship comes first, before sex can be enjoyed, sometime after an argument u have to let her get over it first, stop the arguments and u will see dramatically improvement in ur sex life! here's what u and ur gf can do, come up with a plain to make up other then sex, always keep some Chocolate Chip Cookies in the house, talk to her tell her this is what we can do to let the other one knows I'm ready to make up with u, but u need to start this yourself! of course it can't hurt try this before u give up on ur relationship!!!! bake them take them to her and say it's make up time!!
2006-12-22 16:07:31 · answer #4 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't u think u need to be in a good mood for sex?? I guess so.. then it's normal! but if u re tired of it maybe u should not argue all the time- that's where the problem is I think :)
2006-12-22 15:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't feel like sex when she's still hurt and angry. Resolve arguments before having sex, if so.
Or else she's a punishing b*tch that is using sex as a weapon. If so, dump her.
Only you and she know which one is true.
2006-12-22 15:39:46 · answer #6 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop arguing with her. Most women don't want to have sex with their bfs when they are fighting. We need to feel close to you. It's hard to do that when you're arguing. Make up with her and hug her and tell her you're sorry and that you love her, and mean it. Don't just say it to get sex, it won't work if you do. We can tell when you are sincere.
2006-12-22 15:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can move on if you want, but you're only going to find the same thing happens in your next relationship. It's what women call leverage.
2006-12-22 15:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by Mohay3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she isn't withholding sex because of an arguement. she just doesn't feel like being with you when she doesn't feel loved
2006-12-22 15:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by honey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duUh... if a girls mad at you do you thinks shes still gonna offer her body to you the next day. either you like a girl or not but don't just go out with her for the dake of getting "sum"
2006-12-22 15:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋