I am dating one girl from last 1 year. We both like each other , but can't say we are in love. We used to go for outing ,have dinner together , go for movies etc. We both are slightly shy type & not good in expressing ourselves. I am thinking of having sex with her , but I really don't know what is in her mind. Please don't suggest me to ask her directly because it might spoil this relationship . We are very good friends also . I don't want to lose the friendship because of my approach for sex . At the same time I would like to know whether she want to have sex with me or not . Sometime if I make first move, I am afraid of losing this relationship. We both are bought up in Asian culture where premarital sex is not very common.. Any creative ideas ??? Please avoid below suggestions.
1. Ask her directly for sex
2. Touch her / Kiss her on neck. etc.
I would like to have more intelligent approach..
2006-12-22 15:28:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she wants to have sex with you, she will say it sooner or later. Women are good at expressing their feelings. Let her make the first move, even if that means waiting indefinitely. It's better than making a move and losing her respect.
2006-12-22 15:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by sleepingbeauty123 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take her to a movie that has a sex scene in it, then ask what her views are on sex.
2006-12-22 23:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by petal 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
talk to her about it. its way better than just making a move and being denied, so talk about it
2006-12-22 23:31:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋