This girl, whos a year younger than me, is rly cute and keeps talking to me, A LOT. Problem is, if I do go out with her, or even get closer to her (right now, we are friends) she will get hurt when I leave in 2 months.
I don't wanna come right out and say, I'm leaving in 2 months, so no thank you...you know?
I want to mentally try to block her out of my mind, but i can't, it's just there like a cloud or something. Please help me! I rly don't wanna hurt her.
2006-12-22 15:28:10 · 11 answers · asked by desanctismarco 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wanna block her out of my mind so that I don't ask her out, so she won't get hurt. Personally, I can deal with it, but she just seems so fragile.
2006-12-22 15:29:13 · update #1
Maybe some of you guys (male) don't understand it, but I'm not an asshole, so I actually care if girls think I'm an *** or not. I actually care if they feel betrayed...so just going out with her, then dumping her, is a horrible thing to do.
2006-12-22 15:33:17 · update #2
PS: All her friends looked at me so weird when I said, "Aww man, 1 week break? That's too long!" Usually I'm the lazy guy that says, oh we get back January 2nd? that's way not enough time to get a new year's hangover off...but this time it was different. They know something's up, and in a project we were in a group together, they paired us up to do one part of the project, idk what to do! Also, some of ur answers are just sad, specifically, Diana D...
2006-12-22 15:45:54 · update #3
PPS: Also, I can't play my favorite sport anymore (football, or soccer, whatever u call it) cuz she plays it, and every time that I play it, I feel sad cuz of that.
2006-12-22 16:09:12 · update #4
i was in the same position there really no way to get her out of ur head because when u date other girls ull say what can this girl be like that other girl i feel inlove with! ill never find the right one i mean..... people say the people who u fall inlove with in middleschool and highschool most likely ull get married to em!! :)
it took it took 4 years for me i still i wont get over it but dont worry there will be a special someone!
2006-12-22 15:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thast good that u dont want to hurt her as for getting her out of ur head that an be very hard to do trust me i no{ but witha guy lol} if ur thinking bout her all the tne u must like her a little bit but i think u should explain to her that ur leaving in 2 months and that u like her but cant be anymore than her friend gd luck
2006-12-22 23:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by tasha a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi There,
Let her see u with another girl, then you'll see her with another guy, and learn what life's all about! There's never strings attached 2 singles, it's all a game!
diana d
2006-12-22 23:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by Diana D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will forget her... because scientist said we are
losing million of brain cell every day. Just go take a vacation
or something.
2006-12-22 23:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jagger Otto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be hurting her more by shutting her out. Tell her the truth and let her decide if she wants to go out with you.
2006-12-22 23:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE QUICKEST WAY IS TO TELL HER THAT YOU ARE
LEAVING IN 2 MONTHS, THEN SHE WILL GET THE HINT
AND AS FOR YOU ,TRUST ME ONCE YOU TELL HER
SHE WILL BE OUT OF YOUR MIND AND EVERYTHNG
ELSE. AND SINCE YOU ARE LEAVING WHY DO YOU REALLY
CARE IF SHE IS HURT IT NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT
IT ANYWAY;
2006-12-22 23:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first tell her you leaving in two months then tell her how you feel. maybe you can enjoy those two months you have together.
2006-12-22 23:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just be like yeah i cant believe i am moving! you know just start talking about it all casual like, and then she will understand
2006-12-22 23:30:33 · answer #8 · answered by summer girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can always do her friend that will hurt her but your leaving so what do you care
2006-12-22 23:30:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get another girl.
2006-12-22 23:30:14 · answer #10 · answered by mike s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋