Okay my grams is 82 and all anyone can do is rag on her and say shes mean. Which she not and the only ones that can see that is me and my aunt. Because I'm only 14 If i say anything its just ignored. It really pisses me off cause Grams aint doing to well and every time the subject is brought up and she is ragged on I get mad! and want to hit them cause I dont think they should be doing that. What is wrong with these people? Why are they sayin bad crap about a good hearted old lady who could be gone any day?
2006-12-22 15:26:29 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I hate that sort of thing too. I LOVE the older people not only can we learn from them but, they need people too. I hate anyone who isn't nice to them. We all have to know if were lucky were all going to be old one day.
2006-12-22 15:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people have...um...how can I say this? Well some people have issues and hate old people b/c they think that old people are slow, dumb and just want their senior citizen discounts.
Kinda wrong for people to think, right?
Chill and try not to get that mad. Just say firmly that your grandma isn't doing too good and could be gone at any day-so instead of people ignoring you, they should actually hear out what you have to say. Or say, "Hey! Grandma really needs our help now. Her health isn't too good and we need treat her respectfully-even if she has done something that we didn't agree with in our lives." If your aunt stands up for her too, then people will see your point.
Good luck!!
2006-12-22 23:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask the people that are "ragging" on her why they feel that way about her? I'm older and this type of thing happens in the family, the one thing you will find-out is that the one who ragged the most,will cry the hardest when Grammy is gone.
2006-12-22 23:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are ignorant people. They Will be old some day and maybe they will be treated the same way
2006-12-22 23:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel so bad for your Grandma. I hope you tell them to shut up. They shouldn't treat her like that.
2006-12-23 01:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they probably want her to die so they can all be there like vaulters to take her stuff stay by her side god will bless you for it
2006-12-23 00:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by harley w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋