He is a very well known guy at school and he is my neighbor and he wants to be friends with benifits yes we have talked about it and may have started benifits and he is really hott and like pretty much all the girls at school like him so yes he is pretty hott but I'm not sure if I should go to the next level with him which is all the way! It is very easy and we get away with it pretty easliy but I'm not sure if I should go all the way! so help me should I?
2006-12-22 15:18:37 · 9 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If thats what you want in a relationship go for it, but if you are truly friends and things dont work out the way you think they will than you might lose a friend.. I highly dont recommend it unless you think it could lead to something more.. Get to know him more before you make that kind of decision and find out how many other people he has asked to do this.. Because if you truly do have feelings for him and everything goes great and he still might want to be just friends, while you want something more out of it than save yourself the heartbreak!!!
2006-12-22 15:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by nick9844 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is just a friend with benefits... I definitely wouldn't go all the way. Friends with benefits is a bad idea in my opinion because it seems that someone always gets hurt... you end up liking the person as more than that and then they get a girlfriend, etc... tell him if he wants to "be with you" he needs to be with you... How would you feel if you went all the way with him, and then found out that he was doing the same with other girls and being their "friend with benefits" too... if he's that good looking, then he knows he is and he's testing your limits. Save it for someone who really cares about you girl... Take it from someone who has experienced it and knows....
2006-12-22 15:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by spoiled_lovell_brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ever be in a friend with benefits situation, someone will get hurt. More than likely it will be you. He is probably just a guy out looking for a little action and he will use you. You will get the bad reputation. He'll just be a jock.
2006-12-22 15:23:43 · answer #3 · answered by Virginia C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be better than that. That is just asking for you to get hurt and that is not fair to you. If he can not commit to you then get rid of him. Just because he the hottest guy does not mean a thing. Think about it. Some times you have to learn from your mistakes, this is not one you should have to learn from, this should be common sense. Please do not rush into anything you are still young and have lots of time. Good luck and please think about this before you do anything, this is something you don't want to regret.
2006-12-22 15:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by Zoey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with a friend with benifits. you have your needs so why not get those taken care of and not have to worry about the relationship hangups just tighten it up and go home no strings. i love it
2006-12-22 15:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friendship with benefits? Benefit him 100%. I say, do not waste your time and save your dignity for someone who will value you and treat you with respect.
2006-12-22 15:22:08 · answer #6 · answered by Gloria H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are being used.you are too easy.
try and think of the meaning of life,not just hedonism.
when you give something too easily it becomes worthless.
the boys must really" love "you
2006-12-22 15:33:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
use your common sense,if you wanna be used for free its up to you but you should think about your future relationship with a special someone you will hate yourself by allowing yourself to be
used
2006-12-22 15:27:01 · answer #8 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL guys want to be "friends with benefits", luv....you just have to decide if you're willing to be his recreational f*ck or not.
2006-12-22 15:22:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to **** off,he just wants a piece of ***,if your dumb enough to give it to him then you deserve eachother
2006-12-22 15:23:06 · answer #10 · answered by carin1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋