Like it has only happened 3 times, and he doesn't have a cell phone to call me from so it makes everything difficult. His parents are strict on him using the house phone. Plus the past couple of weeks me and him have been hanging out everyday. I think he just wants time with his friends, but he wont say it. I caught him all three times. I wasn't even looking for him either. Then he would apologize to me about it. I finally broke up with him. But I want to know if what I'm doing is right. I mean I understand he wants to hang out with his friends, but I don't get why he can't call me and his friends wont let him use their phones either. Please help me
2006-12-22 15:16:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him have some room. You aren't married to him. Go hang out with your friends. Just because you have a boyfriend doesn't mean you can't spend time apart, with other people. It's really better for both of you. Think about it, if you were married to him and he were running around with his friends and you had a couple of kids at home.....that would really be bad. Maybe he isn't the right guy for you.
2006-12-22 15:21:40 · answer #1 · answered by Dianne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the big picture---he is a man that isn't owned by you. He does have the right to see his friends when he wants to---just like you do. Communication is important and you should discuss the issue so an agreement can be reached on this. Or learn a lesson and move on but don't make the same mistakes---if you are young, why not just take it slow for a while until you know what relationships are truly made up of. Get a book on the subject. 20 years ago there were no cell phones--we had to find a booth or wait till we got home---don't bug people--they will call when they are ready. Where do you think he is anyway---in 2 months you won't want to talk to him---he'll be a big bother to you---settle down and get something to do to fill your own free time. You'll see each other eventually. Don't be a baby pesty whiney girl.
2006-12-22 15:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a guy thing really. You have to trust that he is not going to do anything to hurt you. You should of let him talk and figure out his side of the story before you just ended your relationship that lasted 2 years. Now all the memorys you had with him and all the secrets you have told him have all disappeared unless...You get back with him after hearing what he actually has to say.
2006-12-22 15:20:43 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that what you did was not right. He couldnt call you because well theres just no way. And yah.. you should have just gave him a break to hang out with his friends.
2006-12-22 15:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably just needed some space. And he probably just missed hanging out with his friends. I don't think you should have broken up with him. Maybe you two should have talked about it first. But it's never too late.
2006-12-22 15:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by atcblue05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd call the date over.dump him before he does it to you
2006-12-22 15:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw u shouldn't have broken up with him. he shouldn't have to apologize to u about seeing his friends.
2006-12-22 15:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by V 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋