they are the same age (16) and his daughter constantly takes my daughters clothes without asking and then lies about it and says they're hers. My daughter is a size small/med and his is med/large. She stretches out the clothes so much my daughter can barely wear them again. When I tell my boyfriend he just says that we can't prove they're not his daughters. We know they are! That is not exageration! Every time something comes up missing we find it later on in her room. She'll even bodly wear the clothes to school. I am ready to move out. I can't deal with this any more!!!
2006-12-22 15:16:01 · 14 answers · asked by gotcookies? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well start writing your daughter's initials on the tags. That way he can't use that excuse and he will have to deal with his daughter.
2006-12-22 15:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your boyfriend has made his choice, and his choice is his daughter. In a way that makes him a great dad, but at the same time, he is enabling a behavior that is dishonest. Honestly, I think you should move out. I don't think this is going to work in the long run anyway. There seems to be a lot going on beneath the surface here, and you can find someone you are more compatible with.
2006-12-22 15:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're daughter should be of your utmost priority. Now if you marry this boyfriend of your's then this other girl would be your step daughter and you sould morally value her the same. But as the matter goes, your boyfriend does not sound very understanding of your problem. I suggest you give him one final talk and an ultimatum that you would move out if the situation is not dealt with.
Moving out may not be a bad choice if that is the way you feel you can protect your child.
2006-12-22 15:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by redballoon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations for making the first bold step. Boyfriend of this nature is best left behind and move on with life. Worst is his daughter is no better. It would be wiser not to hurt your very own daughter and have nothing to do with these father and daughter thieves.
2006-12-22 15:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a permanent marker & mark all ur daughter clothes in a secret place that only u and her know about. when its time for the confrontation, point out the mark. if they are in separate rooms, buy ur daughter a lock for her room door & have her keep her laundry in there til time to clean. give the lil thief no access. that's the only way to stop her. got to set traps & outsmart her.
2006-12-22 15:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by jlicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your daughter a wardrobe with a lock on it that way the little bastard can't steal any clothes. Also, when you wash clothes, moniter then and make sure she doesn't take it afterward. And tell her to keep her room locked so she cant steal the dirty clothes in the dirty bin.
2006-12-22 15:21:46 · answer #6 · answered by Pre lives on 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Surreptitiously write your daughter's name on the labels. Then when your boyfriend's daughter lies, pull the tag out and show her that you already wrote your daughter's name on it. Show your boyfriend what a liar she is.
2006-12-22 15:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by bebeeangeldust 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are doing good! move out!! you have to show them that you really car for your daughter after all she is your most important family, if they don't respect her they are disrespecting you and that wont lead to a happy family...
2006-12-22 15:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by Cobrarette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of both of them - ASAP. They are liars and thieves and who knows what else, and they see an easy target with the two of you.
2006-12-22 15:29:05 · answer #9 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lock up the rooms from now on! Crappy but it must be done.
2006-12-22 15:18:23 · answer #10 · answered by Evilish13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋