I've been with this guy for 1 year and a half. And i cheated on him, but he forgive me and act like he didn't care. After one month, he broke up with me. And i found out that he had been cheated on me with another girl for a month. He still with the *****. But i still have a lot of feeling for him. And i love him a lot. I can't stop thinking about him. The worst thing about it is that he's still my best friend and we do stuff that we not supposed to do. Which make me wants him more. What should i do.
2006-12-22 15:11:55 · 11 answers · asked by dasey012 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is a hard thing to do. You can not stop loving a person, but the degree of love does fade as time goes by. You can find another guy , or throw yourself into something , like a hobby or work...or even the people around you and suddenly one day you realize that those feelings have faded down to you just caring about your ex-boyfriend and not being in love with him anymore.
2006-12-22 15:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd cut out the gray area by not doing the "stuff" that your "not supposed to do. Better yet take a break from seeing one another.
It does not sound like either one of you are ready for a serious relationship. Take the time to work on yourself. Spend you time with your friends, school, hobbies, traveling, etc. Believe me in time things will change and those feeling you have for him will lessen. Maybe when you both mature more you can try it again.
Best of wishes. I'm sorry for your pain. If it helps know this is all part of the growing up process. It'll get better.
2006-12-22 15:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by Love of Truth 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U both cheated so rlly neither of uz should b in love.
The best way iz to stop seein him so much & start seein other guyz & enventually u will get ova him.
Merry Christmas
2006-12-22 15:18:17 · answer #3 · answered by !XxXDevil'sRejectXxXCatLover 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is sad and also if he is not your bf but you are still doing stuff he is using you. It keeps you loving him. I would never want to be in that place ever again for one million dollars and would do anyting to get out of it. It is hell. I would get and have sex with lots of other guys to make myself feel better, and stop doing it with HIM!
2006-12-22 15:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get to know more guys in variety and not stick yourself to one and keep thinking about it. You ain't the frog in the well, there is a world out there for you gal. You go Gal!
2006-12-22 15:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by cinabolic 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you say you still do stuff to gether, that you are not supposed to do sounds like he has his cake and eatting it to not beaning mean, but try not to do things that your not supposed to and see where it gets you, just be friends and thats it i know it will be hard but belive me it will come out good
2006-12-22 15:18:56 · answer #6 · answered by doomegd 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you BOTH cheated on each other then you two really shouldnt be in love at all cuz if you loved him you woulnt of went to someone else..
2006-12-22 15:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is no stop loving him love isnt a pass tense you either still do or never did
2006-12-22 15:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
cut it off completly
2006-12-22 15:13:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
have no contact with him and find someone new
2006-12-22 15:15:31 · answer #10 · answered by Girl with Kaleidoscope Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋