i found(no i was not snooping,i had his permission to print something) an e-mail from an old gf on my husbands account.it was just sent and unread by him and i deleted it.this it what it said tom how are you?it was nice to see you again even if you did give me the cold shoulder.your kids are so big! mary. my husband never told me he ran into her but he must have had his 2 girls from his first marrage with him from her comment.i know this seams like no big deal but my husband left his 1st wife for her and they have a long history together.she has a profile on match.com so i know shes single and looking.so my questions are it sounds like he ran into her in like a store or something and they just said hi so why would she follow it up with an e-mail?what do you think she ment by "giving me the cold shoulder?"
2006-12-22 15:10:48 · 10 answers · asked by tammymartin0978 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know he gave her the cold shoulder ,but he had his girls with him would it have been the same if he was alone with no one to report him
2006-12-22 15:33:25 · update #1
It meant that you have nothing to worry about because he want's nothing to do with her. Don't stress it.
2006-12-22 15:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the forged information is that Tom omitted her, so I doubt he's drawn to her anymore. The undesirable information is she's drawn to screwing around with him returned. you're married to him, so in basic terms be sincere and tell him you observed the digital mail, you probably did no longer advise to, and you rejoice with him giving Mary the chilly shoulder. that gets him speaking. What i'm fascinated by is how did Mary get his digital mail handle? Did she have it from an prolonged time in the past, or did she look it up by some capacity? Mary is a homewrecker of the worst type. She is a type of females who gets off on drowsing with a guy who's married. Now as i'm scripting this i'm thinking you may digital mail Mary returned and tell her to maintain her crotch out of your marriage, that her slutty, flea-infested deepest factors are not welcome right here. i'm getting offended now, and that i think of I hate her. do no longer enable her come between you and Tom, however you do. She's no longer worth it. i definitely think of he loves you, or her digital mail would have been lots diverse!
2016-12-15 06:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by pfarr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It meant exactly what it said. He's not interested. Sounds to me that this will only become a problem, if you make it one. I also think you should not have deleted his e-mail, this only says to him that you don't trust him to do the right thing when faced with a tough situation. He didn't even think it was important enough to read. Stop making a mountain out of a molehill. She can't make him leave you, if with you is where he wants to be.
2006-12-22 15:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by sleepingbeauty123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go! He can't help who he runs into and he gave her the "cold shoulder" so it seems you have nothing to worry about. If your marriage is happy otherwise, don't get jealous over something like this. It could lead to trouble if you get insecure. Anyway, since you deleted it and can't get it back, forget it ever happened.
2006-12-22 15:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah Joey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can just ask him openly abt it? Marriage and love is all about being open to each other.i think he's not at all interested in her.may be she's a little interested in gettin in good terms with him...or they have known each other for sometime so she just wanted to be friends again....dont u worry about it...
2006-12-22 15:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by annie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably not interested in her anymore and wanted to indicate that in the way he reacted around her. I'd say he didn't mention it to you because it wasn't worth mentioning - he doesn't care for her anymore and she means nothing to him or his relationship with you now.
2006-12-22 15:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by Liberty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it meant exactly that , that he is with you and gave her no second thought. I say be glad that it reads and not, "That kiss you gave me made me remeber our time together , lets give it another try."
he obviosly loves you and wants nothing with her. My ex gf knows my email and I left her 3 years ago.... So if she wanted to email me she could..
2006-12-22 15:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by Cyrinos 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means she's a home wrecker...but he doesn't want his wrecked, be glad he cares about you so much! he prob just ran into her, but he didn't care..be glad, and not worried!
2006-12-22 15:17:06 · answer #8 · answered by nat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably wanted to go out and he didn't. Be proud he doesn't care anout her.
2006-12-22 15:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the real question is...why do you have to have permission to be on the computer!!!!!!!??????? dump him fast!!!!
2006-12-22 15:14:02 · answer #10 · answered by Girl with Kaleidoscope Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋