im in 9th grade and this other dude is in 10th. we really haven't talked all that much, but theres always that look he gives me: one time when my art teacher needed a peice of wood from the industrail art place, so she sent me down there to get one. and when i was talking to the teacher, he was standing there wait to ask a question. our eyes met and the whole world stoped. then the teacher woke us up and i had to go back. plus there have been those times in the hallway where he gives me a glance. then theres other dude that is really weird, but thats the reason i like him as a friend. we don't talk all the time, but on the last day of school he needed help with science, so i helped him and after he was done, we just started talking about nothing. its like im the odd ball girl and hes the odd ball boy. we are ok with eachother.
so my question is which one do i have a better chance with? which one should i be crushing on more? and no "let time decide" or "look deep into your heart" OK
2006-12-22 15:08:50 · 7 answers · asked by alien 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Put yourself in this situation. You are sitting there with your buddy that you might do well in school with. Suddenly this one that you have only had eye contact calls you on your cell phone, this is after you have become committed to this so called heartthrob. You say to your buddy, I have to go and be with my boyfriend, this poor boy is heartbroken because he thought that you and he were becoming close and he was going to ask you out.
Find out from your study buddy if he is interested in going somewhere with you besides just studying, he might like the idea of you asking him these questions, sometimes it's difficult for a guy to address a girl, you might surprise him but you are friends enough so he will feel comfortable enough with you to be able to talk about it.
With that you will be able to become committed to your buddy and then you won't have to go through the stress of getting involved with another guy and breaking this boy's heart, if such should be the case. Just realize that there are always going to be eyes for you and you for them, it doesn't mean that they are going to be the one for you!
2006-12-22 15:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by asrtive 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well which ever one excites you more and you would rather be with. Set your sights on a guy see if you can take it to the next step and if not move on. If so great. It's really not that hard once you realize that even if you get turned down there will be no ill will generated in fact the guy will feel good about himself. That said I'd say the woodshop guy sounds like you'd be happier with him. I'm sure it'll be ok.
2006-12-22 23:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the oddball...Even though the guy u see and glance at is just another dude....The glance dude is just another guy u see in the hallway...I f you REALLY did want to be with him you would find a way... but the oddball seem sperfect
2006-12-22 23:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by *Breath* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how come you cant choose for yourself tho? Either way you'll be happy i guess. But thats an interesting situation. Don't let either of these boys take advantage of you now. I personally would like two oddballs together.They are always fun. :D
2006-12-22 23:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the second one sounds pretty cool especially since hes already your friend
2006-12-22 23:11:54 · answer #5 · answered by Miguel L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy the one you had the connection with the eyes said it all.
2006-12-22 23:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by Antonia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the odd-ball boy...
2006-12-22 23:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by Tar Heel 4 Life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋