Hi i am a girl whos 12 and i play Cello and on Christmas Eve i have to play with 2 other girls a peice in front of the whole church of people and it will be so full!! Ive played long time but i never play in front of so many before and im already kind of nervous about it Im so worried ill make huge mistake in front of everyone. I've prayed and asked my mom about it and she said to try breatheing really deep but does anyone else know good way to not be nervous in front of others???
2006-12-22 15:05:25 · 13 answers · asked by Tia 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Performing Arts
just take a deep breath and dont think about it. Just do what you need to do. Just pretend there's no one looking
2006-12-22 15:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by WiLLiAm D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Performance Anxiety. I used to be crippled by auditions, but that is very different from normal performances. My doctor suggested Beta Blockers, like Propanolol(sp), relatively harmless. They block adrenaline production, which is the main cause of stage fright. It is appropriate and necessary for the body to produce adrenaline when facing a wild bear, but hardly necessary to playing the cello. Problem-you are only 12, and that may not be a good idea. Also how often do you perform? I was a professional violinist. Normal stage fright is helpful; it gives you an edge and disappears in a couple of seconds, if you are adequately prepared.
Ignoring an audience is a very, very bad idea. That's the sole reason, really, for performing, and their feedback can sometimes make the difference between a great performance and an oh-so one. Otherwise why play anywhere but in a garage? Remember that the music is what's most important. If you concentrate on the interchange of the ensemble and the music, your own unique talent will shine. That said, also remember that the audience is on your side; they want to hear you. Most of them couldn't make a scratch on a cello or even sing a song. Most fellow performers will be pulling for you, because they have to be where you are, too.The audience will probably enjoy your gift to them, even if you make mistakes. Read the book, Soprano on Her Head; it's wonderful. Good luck and happy Christmas.
2006-12-23 06:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by fiddler55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh i know what you mean! first of all try to get all of your jitters out BEFORE you go to play(that happened to me just last sunday. i was playing a duet with my mom on the piano at church and I "wasn't nervous"....until i got up there i was sweating and shaking!).
also sucking on a mint or a jolly rancher or something helps(I don't know why...it also helps when you're taking a test).
And third, just try to have fun. I know this can be hard, but just don't focus on the audience. Focus on your cello and if youre able to, laugh while you play! have a good time! if you make a mistake, dont think about it, just go on and correct yourself later.
And remember, the audience is stupid! They dont know what the piece is supposed to sound like. they didn't come to count your mistakes or say, "oh, look at that girl, her hands are shaking. i bet she pees her pants". they just want to hear beautiful music, and im sure they will. dont sweat it, youll do great.
good luck tomorrow!
2006-12-23 15:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by Abigail M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Tia,
I would say that you first need to do a prayer even if it's only in your own mind and ask God to help you through this. After that tell your self that you are good at what you do and try to have fun while you are doing it. Focus only on that and don't let yourself be nervous by thinking negtive thoughts. Just think that you are the best! Trust me after the first few seconds of playing you will forget you were nervous. Merry Christmas and keep up the good work by playing from your heart and only from your heart and you will see how everything will come out beautifuly for you. ;)
2006-12-22 23:14:05 · answer #4 · answered by Selinet F 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When preforming with others it is not so nerving as when by yourself. I've been on stage many times playing my clarinet in concert, I was your age the first time. I've even messed up, but luckily it was very minor, no one, but me, even noticed.
I'm sure that you will do fine, simply trust in God, and He will help you to deliver a smooth performance. I've learned that it helps to ask Him to fill me with the peace beyond all understanding, I am always less worried and more peaceful when I ask for His help.
I hope that you enjoy yourself and have lots of fun.
May God bless you in your musical talents
and have a wonder fulled Christmas
2006-12-22 23:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the stage, FOCUS on the cello and playing. Ignore the audience - they are NOT THERE in front of you. Enjoy!
2006-12-22 23:13:36 · answer #6 · answered by TK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking DEEP breaths does help cause it slows your heartrate. Also try imaging you in your room or class alone, pretend no one is there. Kinda like a trance. Good luck.
2006-12-22 23:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Xanax
2006-12-22 23:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by popeyethesadist 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, you just have to do it. deep breathing and pretending you're at home practicing may help too
2006-12-23 06:51:29 · answer #9 · answered by yeahyeah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how it's i sang in front on my church, just say your doing it for jesus, your not really there to please everyone else, just please jesus and he is happy with whatever you do good for him, dont think about the audience, and you have 2 other people beside you, no reason to be nervous:) MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR
2006-12-22 23:14:56 · answer #10 · answered by chica bonita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋