My boyfriend is not really the type to call me a lot. We text sometimes, and he calls me, but only if I say something to him first. Do you think I should talk to him about it, or just see if he starts to be more “regular”? cuz we’ve only been officially going out for 2 weeks and a day, but we’ve liked each other for about 3 months. when he asked me to homecoming, he called me and stuff more than he does now. i sense that he is just nervous, could that be right since I’ve known him for 3 years and liked him for 3 months?
2006-12-22 15:00:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just give it time he is just probably use 2 talking as friend doesnt know wat 2 say and if its still a problem talk 2 him bcuz how will he know wat hes doing wrong if u dont tell him
2006-12-22 15:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are just different then girls in this sense. By all means talk to him since calling so often isn't natural for him. Tell him why it's important to you and ask that he respect that. On the other hand you could also consider chilling a bit and not expecting him to call too often. If you ever want to have a really satisfying relationship you will need to develop understanding, communication and comprimising skills. The notion of finding someone that is just perfect but requires no work never even happens in the movies. But still beware to see that he wants it to work as much as you do or you will be in a taking relationship.
2006-12-22 23:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always the best policy on any issue in a relationship.
Talk with him about it without accusing - may realize that many guys simply do not care that much about talking on the phone.....the text craze is simply enabling and encouraging less association personally anyway.
2006-12-22 23:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Even at this age the see more into issues that aren't there.
He may be a little more busy or active then you are. He also doesn't want to over do it by smoothering you.
You have to take things slow at first.
2006-12-22 23:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIS *** LADY!!!! I'm married and I know for a fact , the little things you don't like now grow to bigger things that will drive you crazy later on in the relationship. If he isn't treating you right now picture yourself married to him ten years later and what these little things he's doing now can brew into.Find a man that is truly sincere all the time!!!
2006-12-22 23:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could simply be that he is not living up to the fantasy you built of how you THINK he should be. You have to decide whether you CAN accept him as he IS or whether you want something more.
2006-12-22 23:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he is prob. just getting over the fact that u r going out... he prob. is just trying to believe that he is going out wit someone sooo beutiful... just give him some time he will grow to talk to u more often and u 2 will be inseperable...
2006-12-22 23:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by J.T. Rollz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should talk 2 him bcuz if u don't it'll gust become a bigger problem 4 u 2 handle :)
2006-12-22 23:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by sexytit19 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it bothers you you could talk to him about it. or if not, try and set an example of what you want him to do and maybe he'll follow.
2006-12-22 23:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by natofield 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get to talk to him in person, discuss your concerns, other wise this could end up going no where
2006-12-22 23:04:32 · answer #10 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋