Quick verison I am at my bf house and he weny out shopping...so I was playing around on his laptop..His email was open so I just started looking thru (bored) and I found some emails from yesterday to some personal ads...1 said looking to meet for a quick bite, drinks, and sex......How to I ask him about it with out looking like a snoop????? I am sooooo upset right now I can not see straight really I want to slap him in the face!!!!! SOme advise before he comes back please
2006-12-22 14:57:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, you are going to have to confront him. You are so pissed that if you don't say anything to him, it's going to buildup inside and will come out later.
Just say you were fooling with his computer and this what you found. He might say "privacy" and all of this ****, but if he's honest with you, he may be angry that you invaded his privacy, but he'll see why you are hurt.
If he doesnt repond or understand your hurt and anger, dump the ******** because it's all about him.
2006-12-22 15:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are dating exclusively (& are sexually active) he should be respectful enough to be honest. After all, you don't want to get any STDS from him!!!!!!! I'd confront him and be prepared he may deny it, even with the evidence presented. Perhaps you should take some time apart & maybe it's time you met a new man........
2006-12-22 15:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by Kati B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually something like that is implusive, in other words you would be going through hell looking for him or trying to call and tell him off. as to why you aren't doing that now i have no clue, maybe you don't love him, maybe you are guilty too, or maybe you are just dumb. Sorry but that crap usually doesn't fly for even the most kind people, if i wre in your pisition i would be crying and simotaneouly screaming my heart out!
2006-12-22 15:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth. that you were on his laptop cause you were bored and he left his email open and you seen it. if calls you a snoop its only because hes trying to shift the blame from him to you. dont fall for it. stand your ground. hes just a sex addict if you ask me
2006-12-22 15:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the facts, and lay down the law. If you two had an understanding, then make it clear you expect it to be respected. If you didn't have an understanding, get one, or walk.
2006-12-22 15:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump to conclusions, maybe it is just advertising e-mail about desperate prostitutes. It might be nothing. He might really get mad if he knows you are snooping into his stuff. Just believe me. Play it cool, if he starts acting different to you, than you might have something.But wait until it comes. Than ask him if he is into any porno stuff. If he admits it. Drop him.
2006-12-22 15:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um Good luck just be like lets play truth..haha and ask him what he does when your not around and if he has every met up with someone else..
2006-12-22 15:02:05 · answer #7 · answered by Ally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just tell him the truth tell him that you were really bored(which you were so you werent lying) and say i found this and talk to him about it without yelling i am sure he will have an excellent explanation and i am sure you will work things out!
2006-12-22 15:02:47 · answer #8 · answered by Joy H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you call him right now? maybe he's not out shopping. hate to say it but people dont join dating sites just for kicks, he acually PAYS MONEY to be on that site, and i highly doubt he hasn't met anyone from their already.
2006-12-22 15:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by n4il_p0lish2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Print it up and keep it...then confrtont him and talk to him about it. If he denies it show him the email you printed_
2006-12-22 15:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋