I don't want to get over my crush, but I know as a fact that if I went out with him it would only be a week & then he would get bored of me & break up with me... He has done this to other girls in the past year.... Should I just forget about him or just ignore it & keep on liking him. Stories, answers or anything that will help, plz answer. thnx & have a very Merry Christams & a Happy New Year!
2006-12-22 14:46:48 · 12 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, sounds like he is a playboy and you should just forget him unless he chases you like crazy. If he pursues you then you could see him a little but the playboy types need a challenge. Often, these types will not change and will inevitably break your heart in time. If you can summon the strength to get over him do it. Try to get a crush on someone more trustworthy.
2006-12-22 14:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by LDR02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you unconfidence has got the best of you.Without confidence you dont have a chance .Maybe he breaks up with girls because he dosnt know how to act around them.Make him feel comfortable.Introduce him to nice parents and your family.I have always wanted to break up with girls because I dont have enough of a conection to them.Get close but dont get to close.Keep him on a string.make him want you and tease him.Dont give in to everything he wants.Guys love most what they cant get.Think about it thats probably why your attracted to him.Show that you are interested but you can do without.If he comes over to your house make him feel at home not like a visitor.Turn the lights of and watch a nice movie and have fun but no more then that even if you want to.I had a girlfriend that was like that,probably the only one I ever think about and miss,and the weird part is shes the only girlfriend I never slept with.I think of her all the time and I havent seen her in about 4 years. Good Luck your worth it remember that
2006-12-22 23:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him and move on, don't you think that you deserve better than this. he doesn't even deserve the time that you spent thinking of him, get over it.
i have a story but the girl is the bad person her, i have a male friend "A" who really loves a girl " AS" he went out with her for a while then she saw another guy "SH" and dated him behind my friends back, he didn't know about it back then so he proposed to her and she said no, then he knew that she dated two guys while she was with him. she went on like this for 2 and half years, about 5 bf in 2 and half years, too much......
now we all graduated and each went on own way she came back and tried to call him, the sad thing he is back with her after all this, and it was a matter of time to leave him again.
so he is broken now doesn't trust any body,
see what happen when you trust or love the wrong person.....
i hope my story do you any good.....Good Luck and Merry Christmas to you too
2006-12-22 23:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a really strong feeling that he will do the same to you, then walk away and forget about him. sometimes its nice to feel those feelings, but it's not worth it if in the end it's going to get you a heart break. but if your just scared that he may do the same to you, you may wanna give it a try before you walk away. try to hang out with him a little more and get to know him better. sometimes you can be more sure about things by watching a person from a closer distance. who knows? maybe he just hasnt found the right girl yet and thats why he keeps looking and hasnt settled with one. give it a lil try and be sure before you make up your mind. you could also try to get inside information from friends of his exes. or get a guy friend to find out for you. the possibilities are endless. :)
2006-12-22 22:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by ursNonlyUrs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...Jen, why not give the guy the benefit of the doubt?? Some people change when they meet people that they feel they need to change for. Simply saying, if this guy likes you too, maybe he will decide to stay with you for longer than a week. Besides, it isn't easy to change your feelings about a guy...take it from me! I used to...uhm...I really hate admitting this, but I used to be just like this guy, constantly dating around....but my problem was that I just hadn't found the right guy to commit to. That could be his problem, seeing as how I have been going out with my current boyfriend for almost three months. So I say give him the BOTD...and good luck!
2006-12-22 22:51:19 · answer #5 · answered by R*A*N*D*O*M* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So here is the deal. Have you ever noticed that it is easier to get over someone when they are mean to you? It will be too hard to just get over him on your own. Play his games, get with him, and then so what if he breaks your heart? Then if he is mean to you, you have atleast seen his horrible side, while getting some action out of it!
2006-12-22 22:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by RonniBoBonny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl from a guys point of view, if you truely like this guy yet you know he is a love'm and leave'm kinda guy.Be prepared for the hurt or be the fool and go 4 it.Guys want one thing and we all know what that is..
Save it for a guy who will love you for who you are.
Charlie
2006-12-22 22:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by HotRod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you might be different,guys change their old habits pass he may have done that to other girls but you maybe the one to change that he could be the love of your life give it a chance
2006-12-22 22:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by BabyC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothin' good is gonna come out of this, get over him! ignore and stay away from him as far as possible!! or u could just be friends w/him u don't have to go out w/hime, do u? well anyways good luck ^^
2006-12-22 22:52:02 · answer #9 · answered by Structure 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think everything NEGITIVE about him...if you really want to get over him...thats wht i do...i just keep telling myself that i hate the guy...(i dont really) but it works for me...but hmm yeh i think you should take the chance...you never no ....how do you no the future just because it happened to other girls doesnt mean its goin to happen to you ?...
2006-12-22 22:50:25 · answer #10 · answered by Cutie101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋