I have a boyfriend, who has a disability, and once a month goes through a phase where he doesn't like to talk to anyone, will not answer the phone when I call or his door when I knock. I love him, I know he loves me, well I think he does, he never says so. But, I would still like to take care of him, be his friend. I don't have many friends in this town, he is my bestfirend. We are into the same things together.
2006-12-22 14:46:01 · 8 answers · asked by amazon 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I need an outside opinion, it all depends on if I take it. But, he is taking medication for his disability. I know what my family thinks, they like him, but of course they never liked any of my boyfriends before.
2006-12-23 03:24:22 · update #1
well if you love him don't let the disability get in the way, help him all you can be his girlfriend he probably really needs you right now don't let him down and just because he don't say he loves you doesn't mean he don't its harder for guys to come out and say it
2006-12-22 14:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by BabyC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no love when you're looking to bail out because of a disability. If you ever get married ask the preacer if you can skip the vow "IN sickness and in Health".
2006-12-22 22:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by robert m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could have a break with your boyfriend. Staying out of each other's world for one months or more, and meeting with him again after that. He and you will realize how much you guys love and need each other more, and what you guys need to do for your futures. You could decide whether you would like to break up with your boyfriend or not having your time. Follow your heart.
2006-12-22 22:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not sure that he loves you, after been each other for 3 years?
This is your life too, regardless he has disability or not. Stay with him only of you both love each other. He is not your responsibility and if you stay w him cos you pity him, you are actually hurting him and mostly, yourself.
2006-12-22 22:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you ask total strangers about something only you would know...roll his a ss out on the pavement and down the hill.
2006-12-22 22:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've been with him for 3 years, and he hasn't told you he loves you, no you shouldn't be putting up with that you can always be friends and be there for him
2006-12-22 22:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by luv_meforever_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might need professional help to him cope with his disabilty
2006-12-22 22:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by Girl with Kaleidoscope Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn*t sound to hot !!!!!!!!
2006-12-22 22:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by Barbie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋