She ask my friend to tell me 2 times but he mess it up...But, I'm to shy too ask her myself now what should I do. Please don't be mean, you adult sicken me sometime. (Sorry for double post, but I deleted the other one by mistake)
2006-12-22 14:42:13 · 25 answers · asked by Wolf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls love it when guys ask them out themselves. And don't worry about being nervous, girls think it's SO cute when guys are nervous and there hands are all shaky. Just gather your courage up and go ask her out.
2006-12-22 14:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by Summerbaby 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look man shy is a mind set. Plus youve got a one up on most guys. You know she likes you. Use it to your advantage and go for it. Just get it in your mind that you will walk right up to her and ask her to go out with you and make a suggestion as where to go. Dont think that a movie will be too cheezy. Its a great way to spent time with her and it gives the two of you somthing to talk about later.
2006-12-22 14:49:14 · answer #2 · answered by samuel j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little man, just do it with out thinking twice. Just go over and began talking about meanless things that she likes, then if you get good vibes, then start talking about places that she likes to go or do. If she tells a place that she likes to go often or never has been there, just tells her that you would like to take her there. If she says yes, then make sure you get an exact date and time from her, if she does not, she blowing you off. If she blows you off, well take it as a learning experience that your skin will grow thicker and will be easier for the next hottie you meet.
2006-12-22 14:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if your too shy, honestly, im 15 btw, maybe ur not mature enough. If your afraid, than ur not mature enough, but if jus shy, you have to branch out sometimes. You need to jus get out there, and if she says no, theres other girls that will be dying to be with you. If your too shy to ask a girl out, you will never get a girl and thats the truth. My advice: branch out and go for it! If she says no, she says no. I asked in all, sometimes a girl more than once 15 times before someone said yes ( i was fat and lost weight and got in better shape). jus go for it man, thats all i can say! good luck!
2006-12-22 14:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by Tommy T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is simple. be honest. say something like "i dont know how to ask, and im really nervous, but i would like to invite you out sometime" and just leave it like that. i am twice your age, and i dont have the guts to ask a girl out. however, girls/women love an honest guy, and i think that would get you in the door. you always have to be prepared for that rejection of NO. its not you, us humans just have different taste in people. i prefer hispanic woman, and i am white and black. so go figure. since moving into west virginia, i started dating this girl, and finally on the 10th date, i worked up the courage to ask to kiss her. we have given long hugs, but nothing beyond that. she picked me up, we had our date, she dropped me off, and i called her about 15 mins later. i told her, honestly... that i was embarrased to make a move and could i kiss her the next time we met, well, she was at my house 10 mins. later !!! so just be honest, it is the best way!! good luck
2006-12-22 14:53:15 · answer #5 · answered by brianju 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't be shy write her a note, or just walk up 2 her and ask her and 2 more things Try Your Best! and try 2 be u not no 1 else.
2006-12-22 14:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by Lil Pooh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen Wolf, avoid a future full of regret right now and ask her out. Push the shyness routine to the side and ask her. If she says no, and she might, then you can't say that you didn't try. And that's the important thing.
2006-12-22 14:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by Fire Millen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
alright man listen to this...if she likes she would say yes..if she doesn't she woudl say no, or to be polite she would say, "i'll think about it" or give you a maybe answer...but the best way is start of being a casual freind and dont ask her directly "do you want to go out" at the age of 13 most girls are smarter than most boys..whe you are around her be as noticeable as possible...but its left to her to make the choice..it awlways going to be that way till our last breath
2006-12-22 14:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by Silent white cloud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE USE THE TERM 'GOING OUT'! sorry but i do. i have been in love, real love! and it didn't start with will you go out with me?! actions are stronger than words. love and enjoyment of a realationship start with enjoyment of that person, if you are both interested a realationship will naturally form, talk to her get to know her, but don't just ask her out, be suttle and open for things. that is the best way, trust me
2006-12-22 14:49:01 · answer #9 · answered by Paul 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
13 a little young why not double date at the moives less stress if you have the friends arround You could always write a note and ask her.
2006-12-22 14:48:55 · answer #10 · answered by dianehaggart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋