My brother is 8 yrs old . Then too he is just like a girl. He cries for silly things. He likes what girls like. It's impossible that he learnt from me b'coz I never played with a doll while he plays. I can't take him anywhere with me because I have a fear if my friends will make fun of him. I want to make him as naughty as boys and as stylish as boys.
WHAT TO DO????
2006-12-22 14:40:15 · 10 answers · asked by POOrni B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dear
he is just a kid ... all u need to do to keep his fav girl things aways and ask him to play cricket and those things which guys play.. second thing is just say him .. the consequence of not being normal and wat people might say abt him ...
say he will not be left in both the groups whether boys or girls ... so atleast for the fear of loneliness he will not involve in those activities ...take him with u even when ur friends tease him .. u just keep quite and when u return say this might happen all life if not change
happy changing bye
2006-12-22 16:55:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u r taking the whole issue very seriously.he is just 8 and so he is very kidish.i know of many people who behave that way but there is nothing wrong with them.so u need not worry.u must remember that u r not the only girl that knows him .he may be having many friends at school who are girls and so he behaves like them as he is influenced by them .that dosent mean that he must have more guys in his group thal girls.u must respect and accept him as a different guy .after all he is u`r brother.but if u think that he is veryyyyyyyy.... girlish then u must try a total transformation by showing him action movies and teasing him with girls .iknow it`s not correct 4 his age but u have 2 do this so that it comes closer to realization to him that he is a guy and must behave like one and bring him action figures ,sit and see football,hockey matches with him .don`t try to throw away his dolls that would tend to hurt him .this can be just an age phenomenon .i guess it would go with age.tease him when he does girly things then he will get irritated and stop doing that but this could be called selfish.so i gave u 2 ways accept him the way he is or else change him.wish u good luck.
2006-12-22 20:57:32 · answer #2 · answered by kanika a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its getting very common these days,nothing to worry about so much he is only 8 years now!The best i could tell you is handle him with patience and love.Please don't show him down or shout at him,your macho-ism will put him off more.Try and keep him in your company for longer durations and take him with you when you meet your friends,show him how guys behave.
It could also be that he is trying to get attention doing this negative thing,spend time with him and try to find the cause of his behaviour,counsel him as a brother.
Luck n cheers
2006-12-22 16:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is just 8 yrs old, and your level of thinking and observation shows that you are younger than him. u suk, really. what the hell are u expecting 4m a kid hu is jus 8 yrs old. Do you want him to screw the ladies around like the young boys? huh. Go to hell with your desire of him being STYLISH and NAUGHTY. He is a kid, and all kids are not same. infact be proud that he is different. he will learn the things slowly.
2006-12-22 16:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by aldehyde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the boy alone, he is like girls coz he's with u all the time, get him some guy's company for starters get your father to lead him and hopefully things should change
2006-12-22 18:12:54 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well keep him away from the girls and make him play with his guys friend so !or it could happen that some time when he was little kid he wear girls stuff and that!! i am telling you cuz in India in my court his mom alway make him wear like girls stuff so he is like that he is guy but he is girl he act like it and everything
2006-12-22 16:40:14 · answer #6 · answered by zeeni_94 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He will change when he grows older. Let him mix with boys and play with them more often. That's all.
2006-12-22 19:16:03 · answer #7 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think he"s just a kid now and why are you worried about him. Your parent" should be worried you.
And i must tell you HE WILL UNDERSTAND HIMSELF ONLY YOU SHOULD NOT BE WORRIED. LET HIM DO WHATEVER HE DOES . CONCERT ATE MORE IN YOUR
STUDIES BRO.
GOD HAS GIVEN US PARENT"S SO THAT THEY COULD HANDLE OUR PROBLEMS AND THIS IS NOT A BIG THING TO DEAL WITH IT .
2006-12-22 17:09:30 · answer #8 · answered by SEVEN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STILL HE IS YOUNG WITH TIME HE WILL BE CHANGED.
2006-12-24 12:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what about you?...............you haven't described about yourself.
2006-12-22 20:17:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋