GIRLS, would you do anything for someone you are attracted to?

Question

I read a dating advice column that says a girl that becomes really attracted (huge crush) to a guy will do anything to be with him. She will ignore his age, finances, living status, race, if he has a gf, or anything else to try to be with him. GIRLS IS THIS TRUE? When you fall really bad for a guy does any of that matter? Do you want him so bad you would do anything for him? WHAT ABOUT IF YOU WERE TOLD BY YOUR BOSS YOU COULD NOT DATE HIM, EVEN THOUGH NOBODY WOULD KNOW AND YOU ARE ONLY GOING TO WORK THERE FOR A SHORT TIME. If you would forget anything to be with him what would be the item that you would most likely think about before trying to be with him? I have a girl who has a bigtime crush on me but was told she can't date me. If she really likes me does it matter? She seems to have already overlooked the fact that I am older than her. HELP PLEASE

Answer 1

If you are really in love it shouldn't matter. Thus was the case with my ex whom I am still hung up on. He was 4 years older than me, asian and didn't have a lot of money. He also was completely detacted from his family which left him very depressed. We worked together also. I quit the job over him. I loved him so much. I we dated on and off and we are pretty much over for good now. I would give up almost everything to spend time with him because I really cared about him. I miss him deeply. If you are really in love you are just so jaded that you don't notice anything else.

Answer 2

if I like a guy, I'd go after him, but right now in my life I wouldn't jepordize everything I have for some guy just like that. If we've been with eachother for a while, and things were amazing, I would probably do whatever I could to make it work. I wouldn't care about age. I used to not want to date younger guys, till I met one that was more mature than an older guy I dated. Age doesn't really matter to me, as long as its legal. Ask her why she can't date you, maybe you can talk your way around it
good luck

Answer 3

I have known a few girls who married muslim men and than were forced to convert and they did. They disrespect their own religion and family because some guy showers them with attention 9but the guy wants to make muslim kids with muslim names!).

That is why in developing countries, people are preferring boy children....but now they have a huge problem with too many boys who are single:-)

It is also good that women have more attachment to men than to religion and family as it gives all men an equal chance at getting a woman. Men are more stubborn about family and religious attachment.

Answer 4

Well some girls will do anything for a guy she is attracted to.Who told this girl she cant be with you.I think if she really likes you she will put the people that dont want yall together out of the way.dont let people stop yall from being toegther

Answer 5

If you have a girlfriend I would say would be the only reason for a girl to stay away and if not then I don't think she's that into you and for many girls all of what you said is very true, woman love to fight for what they want and usually will do whatever they have to, to get it :) :) :)

Answer 6

If it meant giving up something I wanted, I would do next to nothing for my crush. What I want is more important, and men are not particularly high on my list of priorities. (Understatement of the year.)

Answer 7

When you do fall badly for a guy, you ignore a few things. But I would never ignore if he was married.

Answer 8

NO, I would never knowingly date a married man, I do not care how good he looked. God bless****

Answer 9

i wouldnt do ANYTHING for him...cause if it was going to effect my future then no ..thats being desperte..and obsesed...but like i would do something to a certain point...something little..

Answer 10

PLEASE... we don't try to do any thing just because of a crush if there to old...then there to old. simple as that. what magazine are you reading