i wasnt the one saying the rude comment, but i felt as if i did. why? what should i do? idk why, but i feel pretty much terrible.
2006-12-22 14:28:23 · 12 answers · asked by baby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's called empathy I have it too, it's where you feel for someone else, like you feel their emotions, it's kinda cool, cuz you(if you want) can talk to them baout it, cuz you know how they feel
2006-12-22 14:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you probably feel terrible because you experieced it happening. Nothing is expected of you if you did not say anything, really. However, if you were with a friend who said a rude comment to a person, you can appolize for his behavior? I don't know, all I would do is tell myself I have nothing to do with this.
2006-12-22 14:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by Kyle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you feel bad because you didn't say something at the time and let it go?
As if you accepted the statement.
When you play it over in your mind, you realize how bad it was.
Then you become disturbed that you didn't see how bad it was at the time.
SO you should tell the person who it was said to that it was bad and that you want them to know you feel that way...
2006-12-22 14:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by netjim66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its because you have a caring heart. i feel bad when people say something bad to someone. i know how you feel. people don't always put others first. when you say something bad to someone it really hurts them more than you know. you don't know where they come from and how they were treated at home. rude people need to keep there thoughts to thereselves. we should be building each other up not putting each other down.
2006-12-22 14:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by maxossa1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is my personal opionion. Its none of your business.If you have an initial feeling I think its normal if it is lingering on depending on the circumstances you may be over dramatic and it may be a way for you to get attention. Find healthy ways to get attention and you may be confident enough to be dependable.
2006-12-22 14:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by renew69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you care and that is a good thing. It is good to care for others and share emotions. Apparently you and the victim of this comment have a strong connection if you care so much!
2006-12-22 14:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by Bre-Bre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it is! you can feel someone else's pain... you probably know how it felt when someone said something like that to you & you just knwo what that person felt & felt bad for them. if someone said somethign that made my boyfriend or friend upset i would definately share my emotions with them & i would feel mabye even worse then them. i just feel horrible when i know what that person that i see getting hurt is feeling.
2006-12-22 14:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause your a babe and a sweet one, tell the other person that he/ she ia a ***** and not to worrie
tell the person who said it this: WHAT EVER YOU SAY, IS WHATEVER YOU ARE!!
it may be childish but w/e.
2006-12-22 14:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by XmurielX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably think you could have said or done something to the person who offended somebody, but you didn't...so, tell the person who did it that s/he was wrong, that's all you can do
2006-12-22 14:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have a conscious and r compassionate then u will always feel for others just as i do
2006-12-22 14:31:05 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋