and the funny thing is im a g im gangsta im not a loke and my buddy just saw me crying what do i do i still need some respect here i was crying because of what the girl said in the movie she said this to her lover it is clear your conciuos wil go but if your heart is cold my sheets are warm i will shelter you through the storm . how do i keep my tough guy image
2006-12-22 14:20:30 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"I will shelter you through the storm" are words of love which every human being longs for. Though your image is "gangsta" your real identity is wrapped up in the need to be respected...another form of love.
In Truth, you really are loved. God made you strong and courageous with the ability to gain respect through loving others.
It may be why the gangsta image isn't a "perfect" fit for you. You are not cold hearted. If you were, the tears would not come ever.
You may consider finding an outlet for the passionate side by gaining a mentor, a man who is strong and courageous but also caring and concerned for others.
You can find these mentors in many places. Ask God to find one for you. He's good like that.
Merry Christmas...
2006-12-22 14:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by NewEnglandLife Mapping 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that the coolest thing to do is to not be embarrassed by it.
Any person of stature, who understands life, knows that all people have feelings and that they are important. To deny them is stupid. Why wasn't the other guy moved by it? Maybe he was too self absorbed or immature.
Don't ever be ashamed about caring.
Show the little guys what a real man is....someone with a heart of gold. He knows how to care about a woman and is secure enough to be cared about too.
Tough is being strong in yourself, respecting all aspects of yourself.
Besides, most women know that the tough guys are marshmallows inside.......... the good ones anyway! That's the way we like em!
You will have great respect by having a good woman loyal and loving you close because you are good and compasionate with her and not abusive.
2006-12-22 14:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by Tarpaulin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i tell u one fact gangstas cry too,so dont listen to people saying do a drive by or kill someone is just stupid 1/2 of the gangstas that watched passion of the christ for the first time came out of the movies with tears u need to prove your rep to nobody u owe nobody nothing, just be self dont try to bang on folks man cos dem n i g g a s will come back for u and when they do they will certainly bump bullets in your a s s cos they dont want u to come back for them so be careful what u do on the streets
2006-12-22 14:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All tough guys have a soft side, no matter how hard they try to hide it. But don't try to deny urself ur sensitive side just becuase ur buddies might make-fun of you for it. If they mention it just brush it off like it's no big deal and talk about something else you've done that gave you your tough guy image in the first place.
2006-12-22 14:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by Kayla K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Real Men Cry.
And Real Men know that living in a fantasy life of being a "gangster" of violence, selling drugs, and not following God is not a Real Man but a Weak Man.
Real Men follow God.
2006-12-22 14:23:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't make such a big deal out of it... forget about it, and if he's your true friend, he will too. You'll only make it worse by making it seem like you lost some integrity or whatever... just pretend like it didn't happen and everything is completely normal.
2006-12-22 14:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by spoiled_lovell_brat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yo sonn dontt worry bout dat.. Stayy strongg niggaa.. Dont let ne1 mes wichh u.. Ight stay up 1
2006-12-22 14:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by Junior B 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You dop the "gangsta image" 'cause 'you aint no gangsta!!! Gangsta isNOT an "IMAGE", it's a way of life and it doesn't sound like you're living that life, so stop wantin'2B sometin' you aint. SQUARE!
2006-12-22 14:25:40 · answer #8 · answered by t.darrius 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh I cry at any movie it truly is sad Bob....even Bambi regardless of each and every thing those years nonetheless receives me blubbing at the same time as his Mummy receives killed. complicated on the exterior yet comfortable on the interior is me !!
2016-10-16 21:15:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont the tough guy image is not for u when u get the image make it ur own who cares what athers think...be urself...no gangsta...YOU
2006-12-22 14:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by Hayden 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋