My boyfriend wants to go to second base, but I am not sure how it will effect how he acts after he gets there.

Question

What should I do?? I

Answer 1

yep, a home run especially if he is into jugs like I am

Answer 2

The first thing you need to do is ask YOURSELF if you want to go there. Forget about him and how it will affect him. Is this something you want to do? Also, has he given you some reason to believe that he will change after he gets to second base?
If, for any reason, you feel that he is only with you to get to second base then leave him.

Answer 3

I'm not sure how old you are, so I can't really answer the question. I think up until you are an adult, it's all about experimenting, but you should never believe that giving in to a guy will make him care more. It doesn't happen that way. If the guy cares, he won't pressure you. Take your time. You have your whole life to explore these things.

Answer 4

Its a big decision for you to make. You can call me old fashion, but I believe in sex after marriage. I know our society advertised its okay to have sex before marriage as long as he loves you and you love him. But than think about how many guys break the relationship as soon as he gets to the 2nd base and how many get pregant and left to be a single parent by themselves. If you have doubts dont do it. Making love is a beautiful thing you should make feel like you have too. I believe if a guy really loves you for you and he has respect for you, he shouldnt pressure you to do that. So its up to you, but I believe in waiting- Still date different people to find that one person. But dont settle for less. Your true self-pure self is the one thing you can give to your husband, and only to him. So good luck!!! I hope you make a good decision. Like I say, you never know-

Answer 5

If you don't want to do it, or worry about how he will act afterwards, don't do it. Wait until you're sure of how he'll react, or wait until you know him better and feel comfortable enough to go to second base.

Don't rush anything. You'll wind up regretting it later.

Answer 6

well i don't know what you consider to be second base, but if you're not ready then don't even let him.

I don't think he'll turn into a howling wolf like in the cartoons, so if you're ready to go there then expect him to keep wanting more and more.

Answer 7

wel the 4 bases on account of F's and
1st Base- French
2nd Base- Feel
3rd Base- Finger
4th Base- ****

only go to 2nd base if you think you are old enough and are wise enough to make that decision for you own self if your worried dont do it

Answer 8

Do what you think is right. Guys think that sex will tell them all,and thats how they grow and attachment,in all honesty! Most guys until they hit a mature age,love getting sex from various people no matter what. so YOU DECIDE.
Sexual relations is when you feel like your relationship is ready for that step,and once you take it,it will create further bonds,and not distance.

Answer 9

You'll find out if he's for u or not! That's what you'll find out. Just remember, when you get to second base, and u will, you might enjoy it more than you were bargaining on. Be careful!!!

Answer 10

dont do anything u dont want to do.. ok? i hate when guys do that...and by the way.. once u do go to second base.... he wont be the same,.. he will think it is ok to touch when ever he wants to...and sometimes...u might not be in the mood of going to second base but bcuz u did it once.. he will be like" but u did it b4" nad make u feel bad about it if u dont do it ... idk.. if i were u .. i wouldnt... and if he leaves u ... or keeps insisting...then he isnt the right one....

Answer 11

I guess I am old, I dont even remember what 2nd base is. It doesnt matter how he acts towards you. It matters how you feel towards you. Get it? If you dont want to , then dont.