I've had a crush on this guy for ages and ages, and he did send some signs..but he never pushed. He didn't want it enough, and he flirted with other girls, and I just really want to get on with my life. He still flirts with me during class and stuff, but I can't be in love with him with him not returning it. It's just getting to hard to handle, and I want to get over him. I won't see him for 2 weeks (Christmas holidays), so I'm thinking this is a way to heal. I was wondering if anyone has any good ways to just STOP thinking about that crush and about getting on with your life. Any hints/tips/stories would be helpful!
2006-12-22 14:06:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i mean you could talkm ot him see if that he=lps id ont know email me at lilemily34@ayhoo.com i am a advice giver!
2006-12-22 14:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by drop . dead . emily . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 35 and I have had a lot of relationships and some of them very hard to get over. So you havent really been a couple with this person right? My Mom always has said, the best way and easiest is to not talk to them at all. Cuz once you hear them your little butterflies start fluttering. This should be easy for you, you were never in a relationship with this person, he flirted and still does flirt. So what? If I fell for every guy that ever flirted with me Id be tired from dating them all. You pick and choose. If he wanted you, hed be with you. Because youd let him. Am I right. Just get over it and get out there and find the one that you really should be spending time with. Sounds like macho man flirts with everyone. You dont need someone like that because he pays more attention to himself than anyone else. If you laid down naked in front of him hed say anything you want to hear. You are better than that. Lifes short, move on. Hang in there. It will happen for you. Ive been married for 10yrs. Youll find the right one.
2006-12-22 14:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by maggiedog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, I've had similar problems like yours, but what I did was I started liking another guy & I started thinking about why I shouldn't like my other crush anymore & then I stopped thinking about him & then I said to myself that I made a good choice because he wasn't worth it!
You should go to the mall or somewhere where there are tons of guys & find someone better than your crush. =)
All the best to you, & have a great Christmas & have a Happy New Year!!!
2006-12-22 14:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, Drinks, you, me, Mojo's Saturday night. Problem solved
2006-12-22 14:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over someone old is to get under someone new ; )
2006-12-22 14:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by trysssa999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, if you truly like him you wont just get over him. You might in time, especially if you find someone else to like.... but you cant make yourself get over someone, you cant help who you like.
2006-12-22 14:09:15 · answer #6 · answered by Ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thinnk why do you like him?
cause he is hot!?
no good if you love him for him try findng a beter guy if you like him for supperficial resons, think: i'm obsessed over a dumb idiot cause he is hot? thn think : god i'm pathetic and forget about him!!
2006-12-22 14:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by XmurielX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this year is ending and a new year is beginning-------!
2006-12-22 14:09:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you for real???
2006-12-22 14:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋