he is very cute and i really like him but my bestfriend is dating him and on msn he said he likes me and my bestfriend(his girlfriend) is in another country for the rest of december .
plz help me with this situation
2006-12-22 13:55:43 · 26 answers · asked by LoVeR** 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but he's not a cheater he liked me before he got with my friend
2006-12-22 14:07:20 · update #1
the thing is that even when shes here he calls me and talks to me more than her she even said why does he keep calling you ,
2006-12-22 14:11:06 · update #2
she doesnt really care for him becuz she says oh im not gunna miss him and he cares for her so much..thats why he dont call her that much
2006-12-22 14:18:01 · update #3
If you are willing to jeopardize - or more importantly LOSE your relationship with your best friend to be with some guy, then by all means go for it. I mean if its that serious, you obviously have strong feelings for the dude and have hope for the future. If you aren't sure about his true feelings though, you should give it a second thought. Just look at the situation: if he's willing to treat his current girlfriend like this and leave her for her best friend, think about the things he could do to YOU in the future. Although it may seem tempting at the moment, think about it. Do you really want to lose a close friend in exchange for a fling that might only last a couple of months, if that? I probably wouldn't. But ofcourse its your choice in the end, you're the one living the decision. I wish you the best. Happy Holidays!!
2006-12-22 14:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by Princess Jeri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, cheating is bad enough but to have had your best friend be the other person is the worst. Best friends are suppose to be the ones you can count on no matter what, if it were ever to get out it would crush your friend, and very few people can keep a secret.
2006-12-22 21:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by JFra472449 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. If you and him end up dating and you go away, what do u think hes gonna do while your gone? Plus could you really do that to your best friend? Best friends guys are off limits. Maybe you should let your best friend know what hes saying to you. I'm sure you would want her to do the same if that was your boyfriend. I don't think you should go on with this situation, because it would suck if you ended up getting hurt, or your best friend did. Good luck
2006-12-22 22:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by steffo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who means more to you, the best friend, or the boy. You know if you interfere, you will lose the friend. Think carefully about this, men come and go, you can do a better job finding your own as opposed to taking somebody elses. Besides, if he cheats on her, he will do the exact same to you. He sounds really dishonest. You deserve better, be smart.
2006-12-22 21:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.. Do Not Do It. It may seem fine to you now, but believe me, when she finds out or something like that happens it will absolutely crush your friendship. At least wait until they have broken up. Also, talk to your friend about if she's really into him or what. That way, it will make her less mad when you and him go out later on (when she's back in the country & they are broken up!).
2006-12-22 22:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh c'mon! This guy could just be playing with your feelings. If he likes you enough he would date you instead of your bestfriend. And are you willing to jeopardize your relationship with your bestfriend with a guy who can't admit that he likes you personally?
2006-12-22 22:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by roma_balbin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even think about it. He's not a real boyfriend if he likes both his girlfriend and his girlfriends best friends. Thats whack. Don't mess up your friendship because of a guy.
2006-12-22 21:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't scam on your friend's man. It's just wrong. In the end, friends are more important than guys. I think you should keep a copy of what he says to you and show her. Trust me, there will be plenty of guys, but great friends are much harder to find. :)
2006-12-22 21:58:48 · answer #8 · answered by Gwen C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well see i would always go to my friend first u know that is ur friend , i would never choose a guy over a friend unless i was dating him first then she took him from me {i would kick her ***}but if u have never went out with him before but ur friend is going out with him it wouldnt be very nice to take him away from her then it would mess up urs and ur friends relationship that would not be good.
2006-12-22 22:04:44 · answer #9 · answered by lori30728 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very simple...How good of a friend are you? How would you want your friend to handle the same situation. ? How valuable is your own self respect?
2006-12-22 22:01:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋