Ok there is a guy that really really loves me but when we went out he gave me way too much attention and i didnt like it but yet he still loves me. what should I do?
2006-12-22 13:52:17 · 12 answers · asked by Skipper 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok there is a guy that really really loves me but when we went out he gave me way too much attention and i didnt like it but yet he still loves me. Hes not the type that wants to get into my pants he just constantly wants to be around me. I do love him and we both know that. i do like the attention but he is constantly around me i cant even go take a shower without him being right there at my door asking me to not go. what should I do?
2006-12-22 14:02:32 · update #1
Tell him "I don't appreciate all the attention you give me."
If you don't like his attention, what do you want, for him to ignore you?
2006-12-22 13:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him to let you breathe and to move back just a little, so you can get use to having someone who loves you around. sweetie, you probally are not a touchy feely person, so experiment and see whats the deal and then you will be able to fix it. cherrish this it is very important for the future
2006-12-22 21:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want his attentions then you need to tell him so....especially if he "loves you"...you don't want to lead him on and he deserves that you be as honest as possible with him. And if he really loves you, he'll respect your opinions.
If he just can't handle it, then give him some distance.
2006-12-22 21:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by gypzndog 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he's soo attachy then spend some time by ur selfand see if u like that better than ur man giving u so much attention. if u miss him then it doenst matter if he's so observative. just no that he likes u and u like him.
2006-12-22 21:56:06 · answer #4 · answered by Lieu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would doubt that he loves you... seems like what he really loves getting in your pants. No means no - tell him no and mean it if you don't like something he's doing.
2006-12-22 21:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by Mojito Burrito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm . . . do you like him? That's an important detail you left out. You might like him and not like all the attention, for all we know.
2006-12-22 21:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to me I would go out with him and just set up times to see each other. If you do tell him he can not get to damn close.
2006-12-22 22:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by Bryce D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you dislike attention from a guy? he's just showing that he loves and cares. if you don't like that dont date at all.
2006-12-22 21:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he backs off a little it'll turn you on more because he is playing hard to get.
2006-12-22 21:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a second chance, just politely tell him to chill.
2006-12-22 22:03:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋