Yup. I am. I contracted a rare type of cancer, and I'm dying from it.
Should I tell my friends and everthing?...Or let us enjoy the time without waiting... for me to um...go.
No this is serious.
I want serious answers and no cruel jokes, because it's not funny.
2006-12-22 13:48:40 · 10 answers · asked by GROOVY LILY 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Melody. First I am sorry to hear about your having cancer. But I would say make sure you have your head totally wrapped around the idea yourself first and then find out all the facts you can about your particular type of cancer. And then, when you're ready, maybe tell the very closest person to you 1st and then go from there. But at least have one confidant that you trust so if you end up in tears you will be with the one who'll console you. I hope this helps and good luck in your battle.
2006-12-22 13:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by Shuga B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not going to say that i am sorry!!!!!!!
Because i would like you to enjoy yourself before it happens, however you are not dying you are blessed to move to the next life and there is something or someone is there.
to answer your question that you should tell your close friends and even everyone and tell them that you are not afraid and that you are moving to the real life.
how old are you anyways.
remember don't worry you are going to a better place. its called the after life you should be fine.
cya
2006-12-22 22:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by musty118 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd go and do everything I wanted to do before I die, that way at least you can die knowing that you've done just about all the things you've wanted to do in life. Also, I'd start writing your will.
2006-12-22 21:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by darkmaster908 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry to hear about that, but its only right for you to tell your loved ones. They need to know, so you all can cherish the last moments you have w/ them.
2006-12-22 21:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im terribly sorry and i dont think its funny. i know if i had a friend that was dying i would want to know ahead of time so it wouldnt be such a shock when they passed. i would have time to mentally and emotionally prepare. hope that helped
2006-12-22 21:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you know how long you have till you die, i probably wouldnt tell them untill the last month or so
that way, they wont be all concerned and you can still have fun and leave the last month for them to cry and share comfort
2006-12-22 21:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry. You tell your family and friends and let them help you deal with this.
2006-12-22 21:51:59 · answer #7 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy life, then die without telling. No seriously, it'll make you seem brave. <.> don't die I LOVE YOU>.< sorri
2006-12-22 21:54:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell only the close ones in your life,
2006-12-22 21:51:27 · answer #9 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell
2006-12-22 21:51:49 · answer #10 · answered by Mystikdancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋