Sometimes, everything in the world feels wrong, After people laugh and make fun of me at school, I go home and cry in my bed, in my moments of tear, I find myself asking if I have a purpose in this world, Why did God create me? Sometimes I just want to die, but I don't want to kill myself. I'm always feeling lonely, I just don't know my role in this world. Do you fell the same way sometimes?, if so what can I do? PLease answer this question.
2006-12-22 13:35:27 · 12 answers · asked by moi 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I also feel like no one understands me, maybe it's because I'm not the most fit person on earth or because I'm not the prettiest.
2006-12-22 13:37:38 · update #1
Sure... I feel lonely even when I'm not alone. Lots of people feel the same way, even at a party and even amongst friends. Loneliness is a state of mind. I can entertain myself and not feel as lonely. By nature, I'm a loner- I actually like being alone- not always, but most of the time. There are many benefits- come and go as I wish, not governed by the whims and moods of my companions... Of course you have a purpose in this world!
"To the world you may be one person; but to one person you may be the world."
“It would do the world good if every man would compel himself occasionally to be absolutely alone. Most of the world's progress has come out of such loneliness.”
“We are all so much together, but we are all dying of loneliness”
“Language... has created the word "loneliness" to express the pain of being alone. And it has created the word "solitude" to express the glory of being alone.”
2006-12-22 13:54:26 · answer #1 · answered by ••Mott•• 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel that way quite often.I have a wife and children that love me and cares for me and friends...but we recently moved to the middle of nowhere and its really only the wife and I here..Yes I know exactly how you feel .I felt this way my entire life..Some say its a feeling of being seperate from other humans..there are all kinds of theories that people have about it..I know this the most .. and found out over the years..never depend on ANYONE ever except yourself.Dont worry what others think of you .Take pride in yourself and dont ever look back.Try to love yourself and all the wonderful things you are.One day even if what I say makes no sense you will wake up and say ..Why did i even care what others thought.You will be angry at wasting all that time wondering why you were lonely and what others thought about you and you will say .I like who I am and don't have to answer to no one.If you really think about it..although we are with others we are totally alone within ourselves ..We are born alone and we die alone and our body minds and souls are seperate no matter what people say ..You are alone..They have surrounded themselves with others thinking they aren't alone but when it comes right down to it ,they are just as alone as you and I ..I hope this helps in some way..But if nothing else yes I can identify with what you are saying and there are more on this planet that feel exactly as you do whether you know it or not..
2006-12-22 14:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by Will T 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has those days hun. My husband is currently deployed out in Afghanistan and its the holidays. I also live about 6 hrs away from my family and friends so I definetly know what you mean by feeling lonely :(
Even though times seem rough, it always gets better! I know its hard and easier said than done...but life is just way too short to just lock yourself up in your room and cry over stuff thats just isnt worth it. You have alot going for you, just stay positive! Stay busy, surround yourself around positive people who truly care about you and make you smile and you should be ok.
Always remember that there are people out there who have it 10x worse and we are over here complaining about nothing, basically. Hope this helps! And Merry Christmas!!!
2006-12-22 13:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy H 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I use to feel like this. Then I started doing weightlifting. Aerobics and stretching came along later. Now I am happy all the time, self confident all the time. I no longer worry about what others say or think. I am not rude to anyone, I am still the quiet person. I just feel GREAT inside. People say I walk like Mickey Mouse.
Not complicated to do. And you do not need that much equipment. Just help in getting started.
2006-12-22 13:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
not everyone is smart or beautiful enough. i am just like you and see i am giving you an answer to make you feel NOT lonely!!! so, don't feel lonely. you were created for a very beautiful purpose i.e. LIFE. go out and find those who are just like your own thinking and simply IGNORE such jokers around your. if you can't IGNORE, simply leave that school or college or lodge a complaint against them in front of your teacher/principal. just don't think that sad about yourself as you did nothing wrong. you are a great son/daughter of your parents and you got a huge life in front of you. there are many happy moments waiting for your in life. so, cheer up and remain as GOOD person as you are!!!
2006-12-23 05:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by Amir 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i felt this was when i was a teenager and it was hard but i hung in there and i got thinner and grow up and became a beautiful woman had many relationships married and had children it all turned around now they are all grown and im left alone once again i feel lonely at times but i think back and say well one day it will be better and until i meet someone nice i will make my own happiness and think positive keeping myself busy. im so sorry you feel alone but you have friends here on yahoo. just come home and talk to us we will be nice to you always. i wish you lots of happiness and love you are going to have a great life just relax and it will turn around you will have so much love around you you will not know what to do . hope you feel better soon.
2006-12-22 13:42:08 · answer #6 · answered by medicdebbie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I used to go through that too. In middle school people would pick on me everyday and everyday I'd go home and cry. It made me the same way you're feeling. I know it may not seem like it, but this will pass. You just have to keep your head up and never give up. Trust me.
Good luck and Happy Holidays.
2006-12-22 13:58:53 · answer #7 · answered by reaching ♥ you 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 11:37:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer alone to lonely. Longing for another to be with you results in loneliness... enjoying your own company is aloneness.
You may not believe, based on the mis-perceptions of others, that your own company is any good.
And I disagree... because I know who you are is beyond their understanding, and for the time, yours as well.
What I'm saying is, in knowing yourself... you will feel all the bad and good of life is irrelevant.
So I encourage you to find out who you are.
2006-12-22 14:01:28 · answer #9 · answered by unseen_force_22 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its human to feel lonely, disconnected. i take it you are a young person. believe me, it will pass when you learn to be OK with yourself and not depend on others to make you feel OK. it took me a few years to figure that out and an attempted offing myself. I'm glad i failed. i'm OK with myself today, i enjoy my own company. i can be alone but not lonely today. if nobody had told you today that they care about you and love you, let me be the first. love you and take care.
2006-12-22 13:48:05 · answer #10 · answered by oldguy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋