i have a wonderful boyfriend but i am having doubts about him being honest when he goes over his 'friends' house. but on top of it she is a girl!! i am kind of afraid to know the truth but i would like to know from the public what should i do? i do love him alot but i have never been this afraid about a relationship like this before. but this isnt a marrige relationship. this is about 2, 13 year olds so please nothing sick or wrong because we arnt like that.
2006-12-22 13:30:34 · 7 answers · asked by I ♥ Tommy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK first Honey it doesn't matter if u are 13 or 30 a problem is a problem and let me tell you this time nest year this one will seem so minor!
why don't you every once in a while ask to go with him. talk to him about the problem you have and he might invite you along just too put your mind at ease. BUT also you are both only 13 and he may not be mature enough to come up with that so just explain too him that it will put your mind at ease... Also don't forget that being 13 although you say you love him and i have no doubt at all that you do, your relationship may not last it might be just one of those relationships that help you too work out what qualities you do and don't want in your husband later in life...
Good luck!!
2006-12-22 13:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by elfsbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, well the only think i can think of that will actually work and is fast, is to ask him about it yourself. I know i would be afraid to know the truth if i was in your place, but, it's better than being humiliated. Ask him what's going on. It's up to you if you believe him or not. Only you know him well enough. The sooner, the better.
2006-12-22 21:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are 13 so it should not really be an issue just ask him if he cant give you a answer then move on there are others out there you will have same fillings for.
2006-12-22 22:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by Antonia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm your age, and recently there have been rumors (of course spread by her friend, who hates me) going around that my girlfriend was unfaithful, but i didn't believe it for a second. just be trusting. or if you want to make him confess, if you know he's going, just say "have fun, I love you!" cause that shows that you care about him and he may feel bad (if he is cheating.) remember, there may be evidence, but you need proof. i wish you well. Merry Christmas or Hanukkah, or whatever else you may celebrate.
2006-12-22 21:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by Konrad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this boy is thirteen too, so you cant expect him to not make mistakes. if he is doing something wrong then just let him go. it wont be the end of the world trust me, you still have high school. you should let him know about your concerns and if he doesnt understand dump him. it will be his loss.
2006-12-22 21:37:30 · answer #5 · answered by risha_156 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what you think is right! Plus your only 13 so maybe he isn't that serious but still do what you think.
2006-12-22 21:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by Yoshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mkay ya im 13 too how givess if ur 13 ur eventually gonna move on.. not like its really serious or anything
2006-12-22 21:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by cheergal4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋