this dude juss asked me out on myspace but i don't wanna go out wit him i don't wanna say know cuz he has asked me out sevrall times and he really likes me wat sould i do?!?!?!?
2006-12-22 13:20:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SAY NO! if you dont no him he is probably one of those myspace predators you hear about on the news! Block him if he keeps bothering you!
2006-12-22 13:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn how to say "No" right now.
Asking you out is a question. "Do you want to?"
No is a complete sentence.
You do not ever have to give an explanation.
You are not responsible for the other person's feelings. Saying no is not mean. It is being true to yourself (the most important thing)! If the question is asked they know the answer might be yes or might be no. It doesn't matter if he asked before, now is the time to make it clear.
Why would you try to please someone that you don't really want to please(date) by causing yourself anguish?
You can unlearn this immature way of dealing with the people around you. Look up, or google, the word "boundaries" Read books about healthy boundaries. Don't date anyone until you have clear , healthy boundaries for yourself. I wish someone had told me about this when I was young.
Then I think you will find out that it can even be very dangerous for girls to meet with some one they met on line. He may sound like a nice guy your age, but how do know? A girl in the news went to a park to meet a teenage guy she'd been chatting with and before she realized what was happening the guy (Who was in his 50's) grabbed her and pulled her into his car and drove off with her to rape and kill her!
A girl has to be careful.
Take good care of yourself.
I wish you a life well lived.
2006-12-22 21:49:13 · answer #2 · answered by Tarpaulin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no, and if he persists, then block him. Unless he is someone who knows you away from the computer, he can't "really like you." Myspace can be a dangerous place. I have a page, not so much to meet new people, only to find and stay in touch with friends, and I've been "hit on" more than once. I set my profile and everything to private, and its gotten better.
2006-12-22 21:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by tessa 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. If you don't personally know him, block him from anymore communication. There are alot of creeps out there. They seem to congregate on myspace a little more these days.
"The popular online hangout MySpace said Tuesday it will develop technologies to help block convicted sex offenders, the site's latest attempt to address complaints about sexual predators and other dangers to teens."
2006-12-22 21:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by Chub-a-lubby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to have to say no. You dont want to go out with someone that you have know feelings for. If you keep saying no then he will eventually get the hint. But let him down nicely. Like, over myspace? i dont like those relationships. They mean nothing just becuase we talk online doesnt mean anything.And be like you think you know me but you really dont . Something like that. Hope I Helped a little :)!
2006-12-22 21:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by oh snapp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you even konw the guy same thing happend to me but frist i got to konw him and he got a cam and and it took me a year before I trusted to ask him out but than again u can get an in state bf right
2006-12-22 21:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Myspace + Young lady = Gettin molested by 50 year old guy named Paul or Bob
If you a girl and reads this, could you answer my question:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061222180738AAB014d&pa=FYd1D2bwHTHwIrxuF.M9RLdiuC2JiftP9TWR96OJZA4ylQ--&paid=asked&msgr_status=
2006-12-22 21:23:21 · answer #7 · answered by Diaz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Avoid at all costs....You have absolutely no idea who this person REALLY is...because, hey, believe it or not, .some folks like to lie about themselves on the internet because they cant be seen.
2006-12-22 21:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u know him personally and u see him alot tell him in person(that ur not interested). if u just met him on ms and he claims to live around ur area block him. just be carefull lol
2006-12-22 21:34:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to simply tell him "no" because that is how you feel. Don't worry about how he feels. Honestly, he has other intentions.
2006-12-22 21:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋