this girl i like wants to know who i like. i am friends with her, but last year i told her i liked her she told me she saw me more as a brother than her boyfriend. after i told her i liked her, my friendship went wrong until recently we got a friendship going (it's been a year). Now i am not sure what to do, cause i cant tell her i liked her again.
2006-12-22 13:00:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Speaking from past experience, the best thing is for you to show your other side. The side that can just walk away and look for something else. If she doesn't see that side, she'll only know you as your sensitive friendly side and that doesn't lead to lust or anything beyond friendship. It has something to do with seeing you as a man (or guy) and not as comfortable as a brother. (A stranger that she needs to understand) If she feels too comfortable she doesnt feel that foreplay is necessary and it seems cold and out of place when you make a move in that direction. Just try to either be incredibly direct with her for awhile (which should gain her respect) or act as if you aren't interested. It's all a big stupid funny game I guess but that's how it works.
2006-12-22 13:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by deedoe_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay what you should do is just show that you might like her and get her thinking, Do stuff like hold the door and buy cheep things like her lunch at school or something. BUT do not say you like her that might ruin it. Maybe if you wait long enough she might start to like you too.
2006-12-22 21:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by alexis21895 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you should ask yourself do you really want to put yourself out there again with her. she hurt you pretty bad. it will probably take you awhile to be able to trust her. if there is another girl in your life right now i would probably pursue it and continue to just be friends with the one that thought of you more as a brother.
2006-12-22 21:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by kris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, Love cannot be force. It is a mutual thing... If she has no love feeling for you, then you better forget her as a GF, and keep her as a friend.
Look somewhere else, you might have surprise soon...
Good luck brother!
2006-12-22 21:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by BB2791 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a list and have her do one to like atop 5 so both of you wont get mad ((( put her Number One)))
2006-12-22 21:03:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can be a secret admirier.you can find the best poetry and whoo her off her feets.it worked for someone i knew so it mite help you.but if you become her secret admirier just don`t let her first geuss be you! hope this help you!! ; )
2006-12-22 21:06:17 · answer #6 · answered by Ri. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from experience with a guy flirt with her a lil and then ask her 2 a movie or somethin
2006-12-22 21:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by SaNtABaBii16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dinner, movie, concert, go fishin, hang out, go shopping, sit, laugh, & enjoy the compnay. Be light, fun, happy, with no pressure! Don't bring it up or talk about it, if it is meant to be it will happen on it's on, it will last much longer................
2006-12-22 21:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just tell her in easy and dont tell it her so fast..just tell her slowly then tell her your not asking for an immediate answer coming from you, you as guy will do to win her heart..
2006-12-22 21:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by jO-An 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be watchful if shes tryin to warm up to you.then u can tell her any thin but dont imagin it lol be sure... if she doesnt then...just forget ((i know how hard it is))
2006-12-22 21:04:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋