how do i tell?

Question

how do i tell my parents or friend that my uncle who they think is all that--and so much more-- raped me...?

Answer 1

hello lolo tell someone you trust then take your trusted friend with you when you tell your parents or go to the police with your friend because your "uncle"cannot be allowed to get away with raping you.he probably thinks he has gotten away with it and could end up doing the same thing to another innocent child.so please deal with it and prosecute the dirty b@st@rd to the full extent of the law.good luck lolo

Answer 2

My God! that is going to be difficult! Why don't you talk to a friend first, or someone who knows you so that they can advise you in the way in which you could?
If you've already tried that, I can tell you that, as it is a very delicate subject to be treated, you should be careful in the way you tell your parents. It's difficult, sometimes our worst enemies are inside our own homes, that's horrible, I've got a friend who went through the same problem as you, but she never got over it, and decided not to tell her parents until a year later, when her uncle had gone... Don't wait until it's too late, what'd happen if he tries to repeat it? Please, do it, no matter what your parents may think, it'sfor your own sake!

Answer 3

He Did What!!!!!.
I don't know what to say!.
Your uncle should be banged up.
I sympathise with your situation I can see how it would not be easy for you. Especially if like you say "they think he's all that" the thing is it can't go unsaid the really sad thing how ever is if the situation is like you say, and believe me when I say I believe you, is that your family might not. At least not unless you have some evidence to back it up as it would be your word against his, so I would think long and hard!.But deep down I know that your parents would believe you and trust what you say for two reasons one you are their daughter and two something like that you just don't make up stories about.

Hear if you need a Chat.

Gilly.

Answer 4

Well dont wait until there is a right time as there never will be. Have you told anyone at all? A friend maybe? If you have it might help to have them with you when you tell them for moral support. It will be an awful time and they wont like what they are going to hear but you have to do this if you want justice or even if you just want to move ob with your life!
Good luck.

Answer 5

tell them. or file a police report. show them the evidence in your body. there should be if your body has been touched. try calling a rape hotline [phone] or 18000 656 hope. try rainn.org and nononsenseselfdefense.com. also get a tape recorder. this is gonna be hard but you need it to prove your theory. confront your uncle about the rape. record him confessing. but have a relative whom you trust close by to listen to him and to be there if he tries to do anything fishy. if you want moral support i'm here [e-mail].

Answer 6

Maybe you could find someone to tell who doesn't know your uncle personally, so they'd be more likely to take you seriously, such as a guidance counselor or a teacher at school, or even a clergyperson. They're all required to report such things to the police.

Answer 7

Just tell someone as soon as possible. You need to tell and they will be drama but at least you will be safe from it happening again. Good luck just tell.

Answer 8

tell someone in your family who you are close to and you can confide in. someone who can help and support you. you should do it as soon as possible, the longer you leave it the more you will suffer. just tell them everything what happened. you will feel better once you do.

Answer 9

Tell a cop then your parents.

Trust is a fragile thing – to joke about such matters is disgusting.

Answer 10

im so sorry to hear that, tell who ever you feel you can trust, its very hard to do i know, also contact a rape crisis centre they will support you in every way