We've been together for almost 2 weeks and i didn't feel right with her. So i told her that. She stopped talking with me from then on. She said she's not mad, not sad. But i think she's really mad at me. I think she's really sad. I feel so guilty. I just realized that i really do care about her, alot. I didn't value her until i lost her. But i'm the one who dumped her. And it's almost Christmas. I dumped her b4 Christmas. I feel so stupid.
Say something, everyone, anything...
2006-12-22 12:48:40 · 13 answers · asked by AlvaDaGansta 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how you feel and I think a lot of guys can relate to what you have done. Many of us make foolish mistakes when it comes to love. Love can be so rewarding and fun and yet so painful and miserable. I see you are the latter. Don't assume you know how she feels and certainly don't tell her you know how she feels. Let her tell you how she feels and the best way to do that is to ask her. That is the only way you will know for sure about her true feelings. Also, tell her you have thought about what you said and the feelings you had and realize now that you were wrong. Tell her that you really do love her and want her to be happy and tell her you really care about her and you are concerned for her. Ask her to please forgive you for being so blind and foolish. Tell her that she is the girl you adore and cherish and that no one in the world is like her as far as you are concerned. Tell her how smart she is and how lovely she is and how much she means to you. I wish you much success.
2006-12-22 12:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So is this remorse that you feel, or just guilt?
Are you over the problems that you were experiencing before that caused you to break up with her in the first place? Or are those feelings of incompatibility (or whatever) still there, but just being repressed by your guilt?
Guilt can be a powerful feeling, and it would be completely wrong of you to get back together with her for that reason alone. Have you considered having a talk with her and seeing if you could work things out? If there's some way that you could both get on the same page?
And remember, you were only going out for two weeks. That's not very long at all. Chances are, she'll get over it sooner than you think. Good luck!
2006-12-22 20:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I`ve never been able to figure out why people broke up with each other when they still cared about each other, although I`ve done it before.
Honestly, all you can do is put your heart out there. Tell her how you feel. If she shoots you down, honestly, it`s your own fault. But let her know how you feel, and maybe she`ll think about taking you back. It could happen in an instant, or she might want to take a while to talk about it and think about it. Don`t rush her.
2006-12-22 20:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by SRAWRRR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would not have gone out with her if you did not like her.
Do you think it could turn into a lasting relationship?
If not then walk away. She will get over it.
If you make it up because you feel sorry for her but then break up again later it will just hurt her over again.
My experience is that things are never the same if you get back after breaking up- something is always missing.
2006-12-22 20:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by cate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think you did anything wrong because you didn't feel right with her right? It'll be more rude if you just stay in relationship with out the feeling. You still care about her does not mean that you're in love with her.
2006-12-22 21:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by rain ;';';';'; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you think you like her because you feel guilty..stick to your guns..there was a reason why you broke up with her..you said it didnt feel right....2 weeks isnt that long, but if you get back together and break up again it will be even worse...you need some serious introspection
2006-12-22 20:57:48 · answer #6 · answered by Frank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does your heart tell you?
find new love.
it's a very large world.
life's to short to argue with her.
find someone new.
your young and single and maybe hot and women will probably be hitting you up all the time.
a girl never likes to show her true feelings when they're hurt.
juts be gentle and be friends.
2006-12-22 20:53:51 · answer #7 · answered by Millie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what you tell us just not in the exact same words tell her you really do care about her and that you dont want to lose her forever tell her you made a humongues mistake by dumping her and try to get back together.
2006-12-22 20:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by Ally B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really dumb! if you care about her why did you break up! Just have a really good reson why and maybe shell forgive you!
2006-12-22 20:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your really stupid..that's the problem with you guys, you only realize our existence when we are gone not on the time we are at your side...say sorry to her and ask for forgiveness..
2006-12-22 20:52:54 · answer #10 · answered by jO-An 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋