Me and my girlfriend were going out for a lilmore than 111/2 months and we had broke up for no more than a day with that time and we were more in love than u could ever imagine..very deep memories and things said and everything. We're both 15 in high school right now and we just broke in mid November. Towards the last two weeks of our relationship she was texting this guy she was friends with. And we had broken up bc of rumors around the school that i hooked up with this gurl who hinestly i can say tried to kiss me and i pulled away and it was a horrible thing..Now she ended up not believing me bc of hurthing her 2-3 times before in the relationship and that is my fault. Now in the time we have been broken up her and this guy have been a total thing and its been hurting. Theyve kissed,madeout,held hands,and things that have made me jealous and hurt trying to get her bak. N she thinks that i should look for somebody to date n look riet now at least. Do i need time from her? Wat do i do?
2006-12-22 12:40:44 · 9 answers · asked by jarred s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hurting her do you meen phisicly, or just being mean. Either way it doesn't matter, if she is doing this stuff then she doesn't care for you.
2006-12-22 12:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by Rick J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being 15 and in love can be hard. I've been there.
I think you have 2 things you need to do. 1) let her know how you feel. 2) Give her the space she needs. Here's my idea.
Ask her for a moment to chat alone. No rush, at her convenience. When you talk to her, let her know that you will always cherish the time you spent together and all you want is for her to be happy. Confirm you are still friends and you will always be there for her. Then let it go. Live your normal life, don't obsess over her, be strong. She needs this of you before she can come back. Then when she's done playing with the boys, she "might" come back to her guy.
No matter what happens, just remember you're a great guy and there are plenty of girls out there. Still, thinking of just one can be romantic, right . . .
2006-12-22 12:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She had trust issues. She didn't trust your word over everyone else's, and you can't build a relationship with someone that you cannot trust.
So, you can either settle in for the long, difficult journey of winning her trust back, which will take a long time -- possibly forever -- OR you can move on and find someone who does trust you.
Sometimes things do go wrong with really good relationships. They can be a lot of fun one day, and a lot of hurt another. Learn from this relationship. What qualitites about her did you like? Which did you dislike? What would you have done differently? Now apply that new knowledge to your next relationship.
2006-12-22 12:46:41 · answer #3 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hurting someone really bad thought them to be strong enought to let the person go no matter how much they love the person. in youre case i guess you forgot to tell her about that sittuation with the girl who tried to kissed you, thats a big mistake, now that someone told her about it she probably believes other than you coz you didn't tell her. she thinks you were trying to hide something...
If you did told her and still dont want to give you another chance, thats only means she's the one trying to dump you and she got her self a good reason for that....
2006-12-22 12:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by the choosen1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever had a deep cut that while healing,you pick at the scab.you pick at it so much that you wind up with scars?
ever had that insatiable urge to not leave it alone?
broken relationships are the same way.
give her space,let her have the time to heal.if you love someone let her go,if she loves you she'll come back.
tuff love,but worth it in the end.
2006-12-22 12:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 21:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby, sry you had to learn from experience, so did i. LOVE SUCKS!!! this has been my motto since me and my bof of 1 1/2 years broke up... "love is nothing but romantic lies" live bt it, you life will be soooooo much eaiser!
2006-12-22 12:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you really feel and show her how hard you are willing to work to get this fix....oh and beat the crap out of that other guy. good luck!
2006-12-22 12:45:25 · answer #8 · answered by Griffin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try again and never give up
2006-12-22 12:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by twiggy_vienna_love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋