I can't help but think that women don't want men (like me) to talk to them, and they only give themselves to a man to get something in return, like money, which explains why rich men have so much luck with women. Am I right or wrong?
2006-12-22 12:34:16 · 25 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I disagree. As a women, I love that about a man. The confidence he has when he is approaching me. He knows he has his Sh84. together. Now the question is, do you have your sh&6 together, when you approach these women? I don't know about rich men having all the luck with women. I know alot of broke men with women. I think if you be yourself and treat a women right, she will be good to you.
2006-12-22 12:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by upfromnutin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT Are YOU CRAZY!!! Hell no, I would never get with a person just because of his money. You've gotta like the person & enjoy their company. I've dated men who I did not consider the best looking just because they're attitudes and personalities are awesome. You cannot judge all women based on the few that you've had bad luck with . Everyone is different. Just like when women(I've done this too) say that ALL men are jerks, that's not right & I'm sure you'd be upset about that since you consider yourself a nice guy who always gets the "bad" women.
2006-12-22 20:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by Mishee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether women like or dont like you, depends on what kind of person you are; there is no universal answer. It sounds like you have been rejected and that might be because you are talking to the wrong women or you are saying the wrong things?
Of course women want something back from a relationship but it could be fun, (a man who can make me laugh is always good news) friendship, common interests, good sex, and yes money. It cant buy happiness but it does buy rose tinted glasses that minimise faults that might otherwise be difficult to overlook and, of course money does buy great shoes.
2006-12-22 20:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by cate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shwoo, straddling the fence of right and wrong.
It depends what kind of guy you are. If you are polite and not seeming like a pervert, most likely, women will be flattered despite what they say. But it doesn't mean that they will hook up with you, cause after all, you Are a stranger just randomly coming up to them. Only extroverted women will normally open up a bit.
And NO, women do not go for money. And for those "lucky" men who get those women..well, they'll learn later that they aren't so lucky. Only shallow women go for money. Sure, it is a nice thing to know that they man we are with will provide for us so that we will be financially secure. But a lot of women would never be with someone just for the money.
2006-12-22 20:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by alicodges 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're wrong in general...while what you said does happen on occasion, it's not the norm...don't try to paint all women with a dark brush simply because you didn't get what you wanted...
Do we respect or like any guy who approaches us? No, not "any" guy. I do respect that it takes courage to put oneself in the path of potential rejection, but I do not feel obliged to accept the attentions of someone I'm simply not interested in or attracted to, just because he had the cohones to approach me.
I've dated guys with a lot of money before, and when I realized there was no chemistry (typically on the 1st date) then it was over. Money isn't enough of an appeal to many of us. If there's no chemistry I don't care if he's got more money than "The Donald" or is more handsome than "Adonis"...it's simply not going to go anywhere and I won't waste his or my time playing games.
Gain some confidence, that's what we find appealing. That'll get you a lot further than making excuses or saying negative things about women in general, to soothe your bruised ego.
2006-12-22 20:41:06 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny, some guy earlier asked if women only date men without jobs for a reason.
Anyway for me, when choosing a man to be with I don't think about jobs or muscles or member size. I think about the way this person makes me feel. The most important thing I think is self confidence, I can smell that when I hit the front door of a bar, I swear.
2006-12-22 20:38:44 · answer #6 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of women today feel that they deserve guy's gawking all over them. I'm a good looking guy and even I found that when I approach women they usually act like it's taking up their time and they have something better to do. I blame this all on tv and the way they portray women as nothing more than sex objects. This concept is programed into their heads at a young age so they feel they have to act this way.
2006-12-22 20:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by xxbenchxxmarksxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I would love it if guys came up to me more, instead of going up to them! Us women are just waiting for you guys to come up and say something true to us! Don't worry about the rich men - no one every loves them for them; it's their money that's loved. It's the guys that make us think and have a good time that are the ones that stay around longer!
2006-12-22 20:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by Allee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who you are approaching. What kind of women do you like hanging around with? If all they seek is wealth, money, and are selfish, don't even bother approaching them. Look for people who are nice, sincere, true, honest, fair, and fun at the same time. Those are the kinds of people who you should approach. The others aren't worth it. They end up cheating on you 99.9% of the time...
2006-12-22 20:38:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right and wrong, some women want money, and some women will want to be with you because you're you. It's just trial and error.
In my opinion, a guy that shows he's interested without being too forward is some one who deserves respect.
2006-12-22 20:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by Jen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋