2006-12-22 12:07:49 · 29 answers · asked by ♥MiSSz' HyPN0TiQ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No, you should not disobey you Parents. You should be creative about your social life and enjoy your friends in group activities. Have fun. Have friends you can laugh with create memories. Enjoy your youth. It comes once. You have a lot more years of living that you will be allowed to date then you have as a young person NOT being allowed to date but enjoying being young and making memories with childhood friends that will last a life time. Don't spoil these years with heart ache. You have plenty of time left to be grown up and live grown up. Just keep it simple and enjoy. Laugh, giggle and have fun. Be young as long as you can. You will thank you Parents for this time later. Honest.
2006-12-22 12:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by skooter 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure, if you want them to never trust you and never allow you to do anything ever again.
Believe me, "everyone" at your school does not have a boyfriend, even though it may feel that way. At this point in your life the best thing to do is to do things in mixed groups--go out with several friends, male and female. Join clubs or a youth group. That's the way boys and girls your age usually start interacting, and one your parents will approve of. Then as you get older and can start dating these friends will start to turn into boyfriends.
Meanwhile you need to focus on being responsible, trustworthy, and respectful to your parents. That's how you will convince them you are ready for things like dating. You can talk to them about things that might approve of as a transition into dating--ie, can you have a boy come over to the house under their supervision to study, etc.
2006-12-22 12:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by EQ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thirteen and let me tell you that nothing *serious* will happen at this age. Don't go behind your parents backs because the situation will only worsen. Just wait till your in high school or whatever so you can get into a serious relationship that will actually get somewhere. And also, who gives a crap if everyone else has one?! What other people say, do, and have shouldn't affect the decisions you make in your life. You go girl, and if you really like this guy tell him to wait one or two years. Adios!
2006-12-22 12:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by Holla!! 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't follow what everyone else does. You shouldn't force a relationship. Take some time eventually you will be able to but definately don't disobey. If they were to find out they may not trust you about other things and always think you are lying.
2006-12-22 12:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♡CrocsRule♡♥ 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, you should not...thirteen is quite young and there are more important things to think about at your age than calling some boy your boyfriend (which at that age, is fairly meaningless anyway)...you'll be old enough to date in just a few years and that'll be soon enough to have actual "boyfriends" and start learning about male/female interactions...
Enjoy being young for as long as you can sweetie...it may not be appealing to you at the moment, but you'll look back on it one day and wished you'd kept your childhood and innocence a while longer...
2006-12-22 12:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't rush. I'm sure the relationships people at your school are in can't be that serious. If you wait a while guys will more mature and it'll mean so much more. Don't disobey your parents cuz you never know what that could lead to
2006-12-22 12:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica R 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi! I'm wendy from malaysia. I think you must obey to what your parent has just said. It is because ur age is indeed to young to have a boyfriend, morever you still don't know the things might happening in your younger age. I suggest you can have a boyfriend when you're in 15 above.
2006-12-23 03:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. First - "everyone" does not have a boyfriend or girlfriend. Second, your parents are raising you the right way. You will thank them 5 years from now when you graduate from high school and your early dating girlfriends are raising their babies.
2006-12-22 12:21:13 · answer #8 · answered by adamsjrcn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you just want to be like everyone else, then
no, you shouldn't disobey them.
my friend's kind of in the same position. yet
she has gotten away with it for the past 3-4
years.
2006-12-22 12:11:10 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To hell with everybody else. Anybody I know who starts dating at 13 gets really burned out early. Enjoy your friends, hobbies, extracurricular activities. Plenty of time for boys.
2006-12-22 12:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by silverside 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋