Is she avoiding me?I met a girl a week ago. I gave my number and she gave mine.?

Question

We talk for 3 hours the next day. So after two days she went to my work but I was not there. I phoned her and she apologized for not phoning me back. So I said that's ok. So I ask her if she's busy and if I was bothering her. She told me to phone her the next day because she's busy but I was not bothering her. So I did. She was getting ready for something actually so I ask her if we could hanged out a bit. So she said yes. But she would phoned me she's home at that time and if not I would phoned her. She didn't phoned me and and when I phoned her, there's no one answering. So the next night, I got hold of her but she said I could try to get hold of her if I want to cuz she's struggling right now and might go away and be admitted to the hospital. But we can be friends and she's not avoiding me. She's under medication and was struggling . I ask her if she's avoiding me? She said she's not. So, is she avoiding me or is this just an excuse so I won't get hurt? Should I stop contacting her?

I mean I gave my number and she gave hers?

She might admitted to the hospital and told me to pray for her. She's packing up and would be staying with a friend.

Should I gave her at least a Christmas card?

Answer 1

I think you should back off for a while and try again in a week or 2. Sounds like she is having some medical issues and is stressed out, but i sounds to me like she likes you

Answer 2

If you were only interested in a chatting partner, then things went great, but if you were looking for a girlfriend, I'd say you failed miserably. Chatting was all you ever did with this girl. Well, at least no one could ever accuse you of coming on too heavy!

You did the right thing in getting her phone number. Giving her yours wasn't such a great idea though. You want the element of surprise. Women love surprises! Why didn't you ask her out right away when you called the first time? You blew it there. You want to find out all the things you want to find out on the date, not a three hour phone call.

Next, you began calling her way too much. To a woman, this is desperation. And then you asked her if you were bothering her. You don't need her permission. If you have to ask her if your bothering her, don't you think you are then? Confident men don't ask if they're doing stuff wrong to a woman.

She played you. She waits past the moment of you meeting her at her home, then she pretty much thanks you for excusing her behavior through a story about herself going crazy because of medication problems the next day. You made her work so easy! This is a good example of women don't lie, men don't listen. Tell me this, do you think a woman who wants to be admitted today, wouldn't prelong her admittance atleast one day for Brad Pitt? Or alteast any guy SHE'S into? Stop calling her man. Go find another woman and do things differently. Spend as less time on the phone with a woman that you can. Just set up the date and hang up!

By settling for chats instead of a real date, you swallowed this girl's hooks whole! And being the big fish that you are, you kept biting, hoping that eventually, she would pull you into her love boat. But look on the bright side, you know better for the next catch of the day.

Answer 3

from what you wrote it sounds to me like this may have alot of things going on right now. i mean she said she may be admitted to the hospital. i honestly probably wouldn't get involved. you might be better off getting to know other people with less problems. don't you want a girl who is actually available?

Answer 4

Under medication? In the hospital?

BAIL OUT NOW!! You may not see it now but this is a "blessing in disguise" that you get out of this. Sticking to this will just send you deep into her abyss...somewhere you don't wanna be.