what does this mean?

Question

i love you but not in love with you. does this mean that you are a best friend in high regards or now i had sex with you, i want to do someone else.

Answer 1

idk
when u do, let me know..............................

Answer 2

HAHA that one has always made me laugh. Let me tell you a story. Many years ago I dated a girl for quite some time. Our relationship was very serious, even to the point where marriage was seriously brought up on several occassions. I remember the day she said. I still love you, but I am not in love with you anymore. I asked her what she meant, and she said I love you like a brother. Despite being heartbroken a streak of incredible anger flew over me and for some reason at that right moment a flip switched in my brain and I was able to come back with a pretty good counter. I asked her how long she had been feeling this way and she said a while. So I came back with "You mean to tell me you have been feeling this way for a while, and we just had sex yesterday? You feel like I am your brother and you had sex with me? YOU SICK *****!!" Needless to say there was nothing else left for her to say that could even begin to recover.

Basically through personal experience and talking with many of my buddies. When a girl says this it is pretty much girl code For I wan't to do someone else, but I am too chicken sh_t to come out and say it, because I don't want to appear like a dirty whore, when in actuallity that is what I really am. I don't know why it seems that all girls have this built in vocabularly, pre programmed ready to go when they need it. But apparently they all do. Maybe it is section out of the "secret handbook for the teenage girl" that all girls have a copy of or something. Maybe it is a natural born instinct, but whatever it is, it seems like almost all females say things similar to this at some point in their lives.

It means get out of my life, I have found someone else that I am currently engaged in sexual intercourse with, or would like to be engaged with them at some point in the future. It is like a polite thank you for your work here, if you ever need you again we will call you, we will give you a positive reference message you get from an employer after being Layed off due to cost cutting measures. Basically it means. Here is the door, get the hell out, we are pretending to be civil.

Answer 3

To me the quote "I love u but I'm not in love w/u" means they care 4 u but not to the extent as to where they can't see life w/o u. No offense, but they just see u as a really close friend.

Answer 4

now i had sex with you, i want to do someone else.