There's this one guy at school who keeps on telling his friend that I like him. I deny it, but inside I really do like him a lot. I'm just too shy to ask him out. My friend said she would ask him out for me, but he might think it's a joke and not take it seriously. I just don't have the right words to say, and I'm scared to go up to him. I don't know what to do.
2006-12-22 11:30:52 · 8 answers · asked by Nikki W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do NOT write him a note or have a friend do it for you.
Notes often end up in the hands of all of his friends, and if you have a friend do it for you he might not take it seriously.
My best advice: Catch him alone. Walk up and say something like " Hey. Look this isn't easy for me, but I really feel like I need to tell you something.... I like you, and I was wondering if you liked me. I'd like to go out with you sometime. Oh, and another good way is to have a plan. Ask him to a school basketball game or something like that. It'll make things easier.
2006-12-22 11:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he like you? If he does, go for it! If you don't know, ask one of your friends to ask what he thinks of you. If he says your cute, ASK HIM OUT! If he says he wouldn't want to be with you, then you won't be humilated in front of him. Good luck and I'm sure you'll find the right guy!!
2006-12-22 19:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by Froggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have his friend ask him out for you if you are feeling too shy to do it yourself. dont be scared to go up to him, just think about it this way. if you liked someone and they were scared to come up to you how you it make you feel? just act normal around him. good luck and happy christmas!!
2006-12-22 19:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by Who, Me?? ...I'm Lost... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opeen mouth and tell him you like him and you wanna go out but in your mind have him saying yes to everything.
A mental image helps.
2006-12-22 19:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by readyglow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the worst that could happen ?
you ask him out, he says no, you punch
him in his face, walk away feeling good.
or You ask him out, He says yes you hug
him, walk away feeling good - win/win
situation. What's to be scared of.
2006-12-22 19:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by trebor2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. Picture success and success follows.
2006-12-22 19:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could write him a letter and you could give it to him and then run and hide and then look at the expression on his face.
2006-12-22 19:34:59 · answer #7 · answered by Chel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a note and give it to him
2006-12-22 19:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by player_862 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋