he's really upset now and has even posted a question about it...im back at my place and have been crying since i left him...now he's serenading me...in central London for Fcuks sake...and the owner of the B&B id getting upset...because of the noise...shall i just relent and say yes...i do love him...and he says i dont have to wear the maigolds now...???
2006-12-22 11:28:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who says romance was dead.Give in and make his Christmas by saying YES.
2006-12-22 11:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by nicky dakiamadnat600bugmunchsqig 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How are we supposed to know this??? we dont even know you. It is very hard to answer personal questions like that. Ask someone who knows both of you, unless you dont have any friends thats why your asking on here? there are a lot of things to consider that we dont know about. e.g. how long have you been together, how old are you both, how well do you get along together, can you afford to get married, do you both have a job, do you argue much. Sorry but you need to put more information into your question if you even want an answer
2006-12-22 11:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you told him you dont think you can marry him, then yes you made the right choice. If you have any shadow of a doubt, dont marry him. And if you are marrying him for other reasons than devoted love for the guy, you are decieving both youself, and him. Also, if you are younger than 25, enjoy being young and single.
2006-12-22 11:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by dewhatulike 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do the marigolds matter to begin with... getting married should only be about the commitment yous want to have together and not about anything else so forget about all of the little things that wont matter after the wedding anyways and make a decision on whether or not it is that you really want to marry him :) :) :)
2006-12-22 11:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to do what's right for you. sure, you love him, but do you want to marry him and spend the rest of your life with him?? don't make this decision out of guilt for hurting his feelings. that's no good.
i've broken up with guys before and felt awful afterwards b/c they are hurt and i never wanted to hurt them, but i knew i didn't want to be with them....it's par for the course, unfortunately.
so, go to him. tell him that you need some time and he is making things worse by making such a scene.
then, take some time and really think about what you want.
take care.
2006-12-22 11:38:57 · answer #5 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married just so he will stop bugging you. That's retarded. You should only marry someone because you love them and you honestly believe you are compatable to last a lifetime together. Ask yourself, is this really who I want to wake up to in 65 years?
2006-12-22 11:32:49 · answer #6 · answered by Loki's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? Did you tell the guy you werent going to marry him because he insisted that you wear marigolds? How petty. Go back with the dude or leave town, dont want to piss off the B&B guy (whatever that is).
2006-12-22 11:33:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is a game of chances go 4 it 4 the expeirence!!!!
2006-12-22 12:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying the guilt trip to make you say "Yes."
Ditch this loser and get yourself a real man sweetheart!
One that will sweep you off your feet and not resort to blackmail.
2006-12-22 11:32:04 · answer #9 · answered by Moorglademover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really think you's deserve each over and should get married and elope to foreign climes
2006-12-22 11:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by Useless 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋