I'm 19 and my boyfriends dad (lets call him Tom - hes 49) and I have been sleeping together for the last 6 months. I know its wrong and cheating on my boyfriend is bad, especially for his mother but I really enjoy. If no-one finds out it can't harm anyone can it?
2006-12-22 11:16:48 · 19 answers · asked by Lulu 1 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
Girl you have to be kidding, of course you are hurting someone, you may not know it now but you are hurting yourself..
You are doing something that after you get your sences back that will haunt you the rest of your life..
If you care about the boys mother, then you should think about her and your BF.. you are in for a BIG hurt my dear..
2006-12-22 11:34:43 · answer #1 · answered by Lorene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think just the fact that you said, 'if noone finds out it can't harm them". That right there should alert you that something is wrong with the situation otherwise you wouldn't feel to ask. I think it is wrong all the way because 1. you are lying to your boyfriend. 2. you are part of an adultery situation. 3. the dad is having sex with a 19 year old and 4. the mother would be hurt if she found out. I think you might want to take a step back from the situation before it gets out of hand and go back to dating someone your own age. I would also say, think about how you would feel if you were in your boyfriend's shoes. Doesn't look very 'enjoyable' does it? Be careful....:(
2006-12-22 11:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by Chy O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The truth always comes out eventually. You and your boyfriends father has no morals or conscience. Your boyfriend will naturally be hurt and his mother will be hurt when all this comes to the surface. I don't know how you sleep at night. This is a cruel very cruel act. You both will probably be run out of town. Would serve you right.
2006-12-22 11:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by Vida 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I seen this situation once before the girl was married to the son ,she divorced the son and married the "old man",she was a looker and it ended up ruining everyone in that family.after the novelty wore off and he got older she left him and disappeared.If your smart you'd get away from this situation and stay with people your own age.
2006-12-22 11:30:37 · answer #4 · answered by sasyone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The old guy makes you bite the pillows huh... enjoy and some day ur boyfriend will do the same for u
2006-12-22 11:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by Apollo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah if no one finds out no harm right? in case they do all you'd be doing is ruining their family and your relationship with your boyfriend-- not too bad right? i mean why would you care about their family? i feel horrible for them. but it is the dads fault too. even if they dont find out, "tom's" relationship with his family can never be the same. please dont do this.
2006-12-22 11:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by sunshine92 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it will be found out, eventually. In the meantime, you and your boyfriend's dad are living a lie and betraying yourselves and the people who love you.
2006-12-22 11:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by beez 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh burn...If u had sex with your boyfriend and are going to with Tom, you might get STD so be careful !
Best of wishes,
*Soccer Fan*
2006-12-22 11:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by Pre lives on 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just started up a WHOLE bunch of lies, and they are just gonna get deeper and deeper, it's gonna be really hard if a person finds out! And besides its frekin gross
2006-12-22 11:27:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, he is not a government, only the government can deport someone. There is no such thing as a permanent visa!
2016-05-23 16:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋