me and my baby father has been going through drama for a year now( that's how long we been apart), and he wants our daughter to go over his house sunday(christmas eve) , but anyway I don't want her to go because he told my ma that when our baby cried over his house he just put her in the play pen and let her cry her self to sleep, so am i wrong for thinking about saying no? , he can come over here to see her though. Help!
2006-12-22 10:58:57 · 6 answers · asked by twiggy_vienna_love 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
he and his fam. are beefing with me, so they call here harassing me and there is no telling what they're doing to my baby, regardless of what anyone say's he's unfit and an ecstasy head
2006-12-22 11:07:25 · update #1
his whole fam. got problems
2006-12-22 11:50:52 · update #2
He's her daddy he has every right to see her, and there's nothing wrong with letting her cry herself to sleep..I think you need to let him see his daughter and thank your lucky stars that he wants to see her, most times the guy doesn't want anything to do with the baby.
2006-12-22 11:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Although he does have rights, that doesnt mean you cant address your concerns. You can however, suggest your daughter visit him for a few hours on Christmas eve and maybe a few hours on Christmas day. Let him know that you also want to spend time with her on both days. You are not wrong for feeling uncomfortable, shes your daughter, its your job to protect her. Good Luck
2006-12-22 13:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by Baby boy blue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
would he give her back and babys shouldnt be left to cry because they could get dehydrated that my opinion y doesnt he see ur baby at ur house that way u both get to spend time with her its not wrong saying no its a special day it should be shared trogether
2006-12-22 14:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by Sara P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's truly ignoring her or not dealing with things well, you might have to set some limits.
Have her go with him for just a few hours at a time, and with his family there, hopefully there will be somebody to help him out!
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2006-12-22 11:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he has the right to see the kid and i agree you should be greatful he is instrested because alot are not and you may well need him.
you have concerns i understand but all it is diffrent parenting styles, let him, crying herself to sleep isnt going to harm her and depening on how old she is it may well be better.
2006-12-22 11:23:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you really can't stop his parenting style... but I can understand your concern. that must be really hard, but that is not abuse... I would talk to him about it... it will make more drama, but the kid doesn't deserve that old fashioned 'suck it up' kinda of parenting
2006-12-22 11:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋