i dont know what to doi always find out that he is the wrong guy for me but then i start to like him again becuz he does lots of sweet things. what shud i do ???? do i keep loving him or what
2006-12-22 10:45:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, I've been there many a times! Just focus on all the things that make him a jerk. Better yet, make a pros and cons list. And you'll see that the bad things outweigh the good. You'll end up hating him... : )
2006-12-22 11:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by greennchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound infatuated not in love. Just because a guy does something nice for you doesn't mean that he's in love with you. He could be doing them to keep you on the hook until he's finished with you. Sometimes guys do it because they think of you as a possession, and you're just another item they own. Also could be that you need to tell him something about him being a jerk so he'll straighten up. But girl if doesn't fix this.....dump him!!!
2006-12-22 18:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by txtia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that you don't need to keep loving a jerk. There's actually a seminar on how not to love a jerk or a jerkette. You may want to sign up.
Once you find out he's a jerk, run as fast as you can in the opposite direction.
2006-12-22 18:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by sugarapple25 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can love someone without giving your heart to him, you know. I love everyone I meet, but that doesn't mean I purposely let them walk all over me. You probably just love the attention that he gives you and how sweet he is, therefore you feel like you love him. And you might. But not in that way. Just love him for a friend, but nothing more until he mends his ways.
Good Luck.
2006-12-22 18:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by ღQueenღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek professional help!
Or is that he's OK - but you're the jerk?
Or you found out he's a jerk from somebody else - but you have no proof.
Oh, maybe you should stay single.
2006-12-22 18:50:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
same wit me my crush is also a jerk somtimes but i still love him so i guesswe love guys no matter how they act so if u really like him u wont be able to stop
2006-12-22 18:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by curiousgirl? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL U NEED 2 GET OVA HIM.IF HE'S A JERK WHILE YA TRYN 2 COOL, THINK ABOUT WHEN YA GET 2GETHER.IF A DUDE LIKES U,THEY'LL B NICE.IF HE AINT TRYN NOW, HE DONT WANNA BE WITH U.OKAY!!!!!
2006-12-22 18:51:59 · answer #7 · answered by Jasmin H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never happned to me right wen i find out theyre jerks i stop likeing them! thats such a turn OFF!!
2006-12-22 18:48:23 · answer #8 · answered by Aquarius-Monkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face it you like the jerk kind..you will live in a world of hurt
2006-12-22 18:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you say he's a jerk, then you say he does sweet things?Que? help me
2006-12-22 18:52:48 · answer #10 · answered by Arnold 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋