ive refused to wear the Marigolds for the wedding and now he's saying that its ok...as long as his ex can be matron of honour...as he says she will wear them ...no question...i feel confused now...not sure i want to marry him at all..help???
2006-12-22 10:34:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Marigolds are washing up gloves...he likes me to wear them...usually with high heeled boots...;0)
2006-12-23 05:20:43 · update #1
Well, since I am a bridesmaid, (with non shagggin privelages) I would wear the marigolds too! Just because you are such a good friend, even tho we only met last night, but that is cybersoap for you!
2006-12-23 07:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, letting his ex attend the wedding and have her be a matron of honour is two very different things. Ask him whats up with the marigolds, he has to have some significance. Also whats up with the ex's big role in the wedding.
If he says no questions, tell him no wedding. A marrage should be based on honesty and openness. This is really no way to start out a life together. If he can't answer your questions, don't marry him. Seriously.
2006-12-22 10:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to feel a range of emotions before a wedding. I've seen brides crying on the wedding day because the groom saw them, or her brides maids were not standing in the right place.
Make sure you have your people who are helping you ready. If you have a maid of honor, let them know how you feel. That's what they're there for... Brides stress about every little thing that's why they are called, "Bride Zilla". Ok excuse the pun. But it's normal.
Your wedding day is "your day" so don't be affraid to express your emotions to the people who support you.
It will be just fine.
2006-12-22 10:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are having doubts (RED FLAG) end it now before you have to go through the whole marriage ceremony looking at his ex wife as a matron of honor. Somethings wrong with the picutre.
2006-12-22 10:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by Andrea D. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If theres a but then its no no ,we have been married for 27 years I fell in love on the first sight and have and nether have had any if's but's or may be's and marie fills the same.in marriage its a partnership and the give and takes have to equal.there will be
love and hatred between you but that's part nd parcel about learning about each other.so have fun.
2006-12-22 10:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by ken.chpmn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been reading these entries all night, and I have to ask... what on earth are marigolds???
2006-12-22 10:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by Danru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl calm down. how come you didnt want to wear them in the first place if it wouldve made him happy? you dont want him to be happy? ..dont think about himself.. he's in this marriage too... and i think hes confused and thinks now that his ex will be willing to do whatever to make him happy
tell him that you DONT want his ex there, and that you have a change of heart about the marigolds and wear them!!
hope i helped hun
2006-12-22 10:37:30 · answer #7 · answered by answer! this 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he's still in love with his X. If i were you i'd call the wedding off because it dosen't look like your going down a long life a romance, i think you'll be going (if you marry him) down a road of hate, betrayal and divorce
2006-12-22 10:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by alisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is so important about Marigolds?
2006-12-22 10:36:36 · answer #9 · answered by dmjrev 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUUUUUUUNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ex as the matron of honor????????? Serious problems their ya????? If your questioning your self and their are other issues besides this one then err on the side of caution. By the way I have ocean front property in Arizona, interested?
2006-12-22 10:37:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋