verbal abuse
2006-12-22 10:28:26 · 43 answers · asked by miss_sj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, its not love, its control;
2006-12-22 10:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't Love. He is verbally abusing you and then telling you that he loves you, he is telling you that he loves you because he doesn't want you to realize that what is he is doing is wrong. So NO it is not love! at all. A man should never verbally, physically, emotionally or any kind of abuse to anyone.
God Bless, Good Luck and Happy Holiday's
2006-12-22 10:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO!
I have been abused. Any different ways.
It came to a point in my life that I deserve someone better. My Dad never abused my Mother. I didn't even know why I was in that type of a relationship. God did not put me here to be abused by someone Else's sickness. I found a wonderful man and I am very happy. It's been 15 years now! The abuser kept telling me that he loved me also. I knew in the back of my head. IT WASN'T LOVE! He needed help.
I couldn't give that help to him. Sometimes I think my husband is to good for me but has in my Lord Jesus he loves me and I love him.
2006-12-22 10:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hell no. Do you abuse anything you care about because you love them? No. That is not love. That is them having some problems they need to deal with. Its called therapy and that is not therapy where they take it out on you. I understand its emotional abuse but who says the next step won't be physical abuse. Get away from them. Do it now. No one deserves abuse of any kind. You are better than that.
2006-12-22 10:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by meg10_82 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt love you if he abuses you. Hes crazy and it could get worse if you dont get away from him. He probably says im going to change and never do it again but he still does the same bull all the time. Leave him alone.
2006-12-22 10:33:55 · answer #5 · answered by brownsugar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if someone loves they should never hurt you in anyway- verbally or physically. I'd get out while you can, most times the verbal abuse turns physical.
2006-12-22 10:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The abuser may think so . . but I would say no. If that person really loved you, they would not be abusive. True love would make them want to get better (change their ways) by seeking counseling to get better. No one deserves any type of abuse.
2006-12-22 10:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_carmel_angel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No abuse is abuse no matter if it is verbal or physical. emotional abuse is the worst. It is not love because if someone loves you they will never ever ever.. hurt you! So drop kick him to the curb and find someone new. Don't ever let anyone talk down to you or degrade you like that, no matter who they are.. Good luck
2006-12-22 10:31:17 · answer #8 · answered by michelle b 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
nicely, it quite is complicated. He possibly does love you. in spite of the shown fact that, he does not manage you relatively, and emotional abuse isn't exhibiting his love. are you able to verify your self with him a year from now? How approximately 5 years from now? No, i do no longer think of you may. in case you opt to stay with him, seek for some style of counseling with him approximately it. i understand, it quite is tough; you finally end up so emotionally related to this person, so involved of their good traits, yet you ought to appear out for your self first to make useful each and every thing will paintings out. i might propose counseling for your self despite in case you do no longer stay with him. it quite is fairly nerve-racking, in spite of the reality that it won't be. Is it worth being consistently emotionally harm?
2016-10-15 11:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i don't know if it is a love of the person or a love of the abuse.
it could be love in a sense that you letting him emotionally abuse you gives him a feeling of power, and it is that that he loves.
2006-12-22 10:31:48 · answer #10 · answered by Fluffington Cuddlebutts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it is not love it is possession
and verbal will lead to physical abuse sooner or later
get away from him now
good luck
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2006-12-22 10:52:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋