verbal abuse
2006-12-22 10:26:30 · 11 answers · asked by miss_sj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it may mean that to him, but if you don't interpret it as love, then he has to understand that his 'approach' must change
2006-12-22 10:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's complicated. He probably does love you. However, he doesn't treat you fairly, and emotional abuse is not showing his love. Can you see yourself with him a year from now? How about five years from now? No, I don't think you can. If you want to stay with him, seek some sort of counseling with him about it. I know, it's hard; you find yourself so emotionally attached to this person, so attracted to their good qualities, but you have to look out for yourself first to make sure everything will work out.
I would suggest counseling for yourself even if you don't stay with him. It can be quite traumatic, even though it shouldn't be.
Is it worth being constantly emotionally hurt?
2006-12-22 10:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by cadence_lost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God no way that could be love. I went through a relationship where my husband was abusive physically, mentally, and emotionally. The scars run deep and it has taken me over 10 years to work through the deepest of those scars. I felt like I worthless, unworthy of the love of a good man. I now have the love of the most awesome man I could ever find, but I still have doubts about how good of a person I am. My ex told me I was fat when I was thin, that i could never find a man that could ever love me the way he does....then he would hit me because he misplaced his keys. Believe me if that man loved you he would treat you like the queen you are.
2006-12-22 10:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by txtia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it quite is not Love. he's verbally abusing you and then telling you that he loves you, he's telling you that he loves you through fact he does not choose you to realize that what's he's doing is incorrect. So NO it quite is not love! in any respect. a guy ought to in no way verbally, bodily, emotionally or any style of abuse to every person. God Bless, good success and satisfied trip's
2016-10-15 11:21:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, no man that loves you would want to break down your confidence by emotional abuse. A real man would never say anything to you that he wouldn't say infront of your huge mean brothers.
2006-12-22 10:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by Gia V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that's not love.... no matter how much they say that they love you how can they when in the same sentence they put you down???
I got out of that kind of relationship two years ago and 8 months ago I meet my current bf he never puts me down and you have no idea how good it feels to be respected
2006-12-22 10:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is trying to break you down because he so emotionally insecure
2006-12-22 10:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is sooooooooo not love
2006-12-22 10:30:25 · answer #8 · answered by curiousgirl? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
2006-12-22 10:32:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no hun.
2006-12-22 10:51:48 · answer #10 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋