Okay there is this guy at my school and he is really hot but hes a bad boy and my parents wont let me date bad boys and all my dad will ever let me date is a football jock but my parents wont let me date any1 til im 16 which totally sucks anyway so he sits at the table in frnt of me at lunch and he always smiles at me with this flirty smile and makes me blush til my face is really red but i really like him and there is 3 or 4 problems thogh 1st hes in 7th grade and im in 6th but i dont see why my paents care about it thogh bcuz my dad is 6 yearz older than my mom and 2nd he failed a grade so really hes supposed to be in 8th grade agin i dont care and hes still really hot 3rd how do i date him without my parents finding out? whhich is really hard bcuz my mom works at the school and 4th how do i ask him out if i do and should the boy ask the girl out pleez answer this bcuz i really like this guy?!?!?!?!?!?thanx
2006-12-22 10:22:42 · 22 answers · asked by XcourttneyyX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OH MY GOD IM IN MIDDLE SCHOOL!!! IM NOT GONNA GET PREGNANT AND TO EVERYONE WHO SAID THAT HENIOUS COMMENT GO GET A LIFE!!
2006-12-22 11:24:15 · update #1
AND TO EVEYONE ELSE WHO ANSWERED THANK YOU AND WIL TAKE YOUR COMMENTS INTO CONSIDERATION. ONCE AGAIN THANK YOU
2006-12-22 11:25:30 · update #2
At your age you should listen to your parents wishes. They have been where you are and don;t want you to go through what they had to deal with. Just the fact that you asked this question makes me think that you are not mature enough to be dating. Don't rush things,adulthood will come soon enough.
2006-12-22 10:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by mopjky 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's impressive how many people are telling you to break the rules, ignore your parent's guidance, and do the wrong thing when it will be YOU who will have to face the consequences. All of these people combined have the wisdom of a 12 year old. LISTEN to your parents. They aren't there to control your life. They are there to help you, guide you, and protect you. Also, don't ever think for one minute that you are smarter than your parents and that you can get away with stuff. They know what you think they don't. They just don't say anything so they can observe you further. No matter what, now or later, stay away from the "bad boys". They are cool only in the movies. In real life they will make you regret you ever talked to them, especially after they decide that YOU'RE the one trying to make them live by the rules.
2006-12-22 18:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by ailolyen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think you should be able to date him, cuz ur in 6th grade, and ur speaking very maturilly (Cant spell that one) for ur age. I have a brother in the same grade as u, and I cant imagine him having this conversation with me. As far as ur mom finding out, the whole "my mom works at the school thing" has been really hard for my friends. I have no real advice, but this.... "bad boy" can mean many things. Dont date him cuz hes cute. Date him cuz u like him. PLUS, when an 8th grader, (sposed to be 8th grader) wants to date a 6th grader, something may be up. I've seen it before. Be careful little lady, and best of luck to you. (and ur dads right, 16 sounds good. Im almost 18, and i agree)
2006-12-22 18:27:29 · answer #3 · answered by Donny B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok listen up girl...you need to go out with him. Have some fun and enjoy dating. At luch, ask to sit next to him. Then say you like him or whatever and just plain straight ask him to go out with you. If he says yes then tell him that your parents don't want you dating so he'll hae to keep it a secret and you can't do anything in public. Show him your mom so he knows exactly who she is and what she looks like. Then date hm and if you guys keep it secret rite, anyone who's not supposed to know won't know! And hey, yr parents suck and our losers when t comes to dating (sorry but that's the truth).
And if he does actually like you and your parents do find out, you won't care because of the special love that you share for each other. And really, they can't stop real love...no1 can! And you can always write little notes to him. Use code names so they won't know tt it's u!
2006-12-22 18:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by alisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now having a boyfriend may seem really important but the thing is once you get to high school you look back and middle school relationships will be like a joke to you. focus on having fun with friends and making memories for now. boys aren't worth it. If you really like this guy chill with him or what ever but don't put dating as a top priority.
2006-12-22 18:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by dang girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't like this answer but you are really to young to be this worked up over this. Relax, enjoy being in sixth grade. Listen to your parents.
By the way, when he is flirting with you and making you blush, he is only enjoying the power he has over you. Move your seat. If He is really interested he will follow whatever rules you and your parents establish for how you are to be treated.
2006-12-22 18:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by dmjrev 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there! i know how you feel. you must REALLY REALLY like him i know this may not be that nice to hear.. but girl dont rush.. i'm not kidding.. just dont rush.. ive been there... sometimes you just really really like someone but later on you may realize that he's not ALL THAT anyway.. youll meet someone to date someday.. and it could be soon.. its much easier and is much better to date LEGALLY (with your arents' approval).. this way you wouldnt have to worry so much.. and being so young i bet youve got a lot of potential. there are a million guys out there!!! just wait and one day instead of worrying how you can get this certain guy, you'd be worrying how to pick which one!! haha lol.. let them run after you and not the other way around... remember that you are beautiful and deserve best.. good luck to you! :D
2006-12-22 18:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by supercalifragelisticexpialidoseo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. Looks like you have a lot of problems... i think your only reason you like him is cause of his loooks , which is bad ,but who am i here to judge. If u want him to ask you out , the best thing you can do is give him hints. hints that tell him , that you like him and you want to go out and if you give these hints at the right time and if he likes you then he will surly ask u out, but dont hope a lot beacuse you have a lot of problems. like your parants and if u are going out and you want to hide it , make sure to tell him not to call you and use myspace or msn, to comminacate , and what ever is goign out in school , your parants wont know. GOOD Luck :)
2006-12-22 18:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by Boss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on honey. i am saying this out of love. he is a dumb guy. but i know he's hot. but the chances are he would use you and then dumb you. he will really hurt you. the flirting it sounds like a playboy flirting. and i know it would be awesome to date him. and i would be the first to say don't listen to you parents. but you have to. they say you shouldn't date a bad boy because they take advantage of you and then dump you and really hurt u. i am not making generalizations but it is so damn true. so think a lot before you do something stupid...
2006-12-22 18:29:40 · answer #9 · answered by answerer101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on ething that parents are retarded about is dating...but how will u ever meet the rite perosn if they dont let u date?? so so it and forget ur parents..ull get in trouble, but if he's good to u and u really like him then do it..i would do the same thing, and i wouldn't care about the trouble i got in.
2006-12-22 18:29:03 · answer #10 · answered by onetwothree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋