i've been lying to my wife for 60 years about my homosexual nature. i've been having a homosexual affair with

Question

my neighbor's son----he's a VERY sexy young man. i'm almost 90 years old now. do you think it's time i came clean and told my wife so she can move on with her life?

Answer 1

Toss out the Viagra and stay with your wife. Move on with her life? How old is she? You've already taken 60 years from her--taken 60 years that she could have found someone that really loved her. There isn't anything wrong with being gay.
You aren't gay-you're just a liar and a coward.

Answer 2

If you have been having an affair at 90 you are an exceptionally healthy individual, but understand one thing. You obviously have no reason to "come clean" with your wife at this point. Don't cause her to live the remaining years of her life in misery, hurt and pain.
What you need to do is get your house in order before the bell rings up your end of time in this life. She has nothing left to lose, since you are the one having an illicit affair! She has already lost you as her true lover and mate. If there is an after-life and a God that judges all persons after death, it would be advisable for you to get on your knees and make things right with the only entity that counts, God!! If you are of Christian belief, then you would be viewed a sinner in the Christian world, with need for confession and cleansing, only from the Almighty Creator, not your wife! She does not deserve to share the guilt trip that you are experiencing right now. Change your ways and know what real life has to offer---right now!!

Answer 3

My husband told me about his homosexual affairs when it was no longer hide able. He contacted Aids. We had been married for 20 years at the time. It was devasting. I would not tell your wife if I were you, especially if she is as old or nearly as old as you are. She would be shattered, and that would help noone. Just be sure you dont get her sick.

Answer 4

I must ask you to forgive me first. I read your other question about you and your pastor and thought it was a joke. This question shows me that I was wrong. My advice is that you need to stop all homosexual activity, ask forgiveness of God, but do not ruin anyone else's life. Wanting to "come clean" and give your wife a chance to leave tells me that you do not want to stop this behavior. But stopping is the key to restoring peace and integrity to your life, sir.

Answer 5

no don't , she probably will live for a couple of years .. dont ruin her life. Its too LATE! just be freinds and have fun ... ur going to meet GOD soon. make sure u make some good decisions cuz u obviously ruined ur wife's life by cheating on her for 60 years .. i hope she was cheating on you too . sorry , honesty hurts

Answer 6

Find a gay community center where you can find some support and bounce the question off of them where there aren't so many freakin' hatemongers to buffet you. My opinion is that you should come out of the closet and be yourself, and be truthful, but only you can make the decision.

Answer 7

She hasn't known in 60 years or at least you think she doesn't know. maybe she is glad you were with someone else.
at age 90. you are still getting your chubby up. which I doubt.
tell her what you want ..

Answer 8

if you are almost 90,what age does that make your wife? you have been very selfish and have put her at risk for STDs and AIDS because of your infidelity.

Answer 9

Nah - just keep fooling her.... Youre obviously fooling yourself if you are 90 and think youre still getting a chubby....

Answer 10

If you've cheated on your wife you should admit it. Lying is wrong. Who you lie with is immaterial.