I like my Friends Boyfriend And He Like Me To But She Is My Friend Wat Should I do?

Question

They have had sex and she always tells me about it like she knows I like him and I kissed him one day and she sat and stared at me like she was waiting for me to tell her that I had done it he told me that he just cant let go of her becuz of thier physical thing
and then on the bus I kissed him and his cousin might have seen becuz now she shakes her head and always has these gross make out sessions in front of my face and says I got him now
I dont wanna lose her as a friend but she has always been a little to flirty with my boyfriends I wanna call it pay back but it's getting serious he's coming over my house tommorow and I feel kind of bad about it should I invite her along?

Answer 1

if like him and he likes u then wait til they break up, then u can catch him off the rebound

Answer 2

You aren't going to like what I have to say but...

Big, big, BIG mistake!! Even thinking of touching a friend's boyfriend or even an ex is off limits unless they give you the ok which in this case she obviously has not.

If you continue to do what you do, then your not her friend at all. Friends absolutely DO NOT do anything to intentionally hurt one another. If you're friends you don't need paybacks...Overall paybacks are incredibly immature...besides, you said she flirted with your ex's...big deal...human nature is to flirt. However stealing a friend's boyfriend is completely ridiculous. If a friend of mine did that to me, I'd be irrate!! Wouldn't you?? You were obviously mad when a friend flirted. Imagine how you would feel if one attempted to steal your boyfriend.

If you don't want to lose her friendship, then you NEED to blow him off and hang with her instead. If you're a true friend and care about her, that's what you would do.

Also, the guy sounds like a pig mostly because he doesn't want to let her go because of sex, yet you say it's getting serious between the two of you. He obviously doesn't respect you or your friend. That should be a red flag right there for the both of you that he's not worth yours or your friends time. You'd both be so much better off without him.

I hope you make the better choice. Good luck.

Answer 3

True friends don't do that to eachother. You should back off. Regardless of whether or not she's done similar things to you in the past, be the bigger person and ignore it. Find your own man. He's playing the both of you and in the end, he'll sleep with both of you and leave you two broken hearted.

Answer 4

If she is your friend you all are to have respect for one another
and friends don't do each other no real friend .rather she is firty are not you all got the game messed up and that man of her's my friend would know the deal about him and you was wronge tor even carryin on like that with him and just think if he kiss you no telling what else he's kissing and who.chill out it is not that serious

Answer 5

if u care anything about your friend, then u should leave her man alone.My best friend in high school slept with my boyfriend before i did, and i found out much later.At the time i remained friends with the girl,because we had been friends for 6 years prior to this, and i kept the guy.we constantly argued over that situation.Now, i don't have her as a friend, or him as a man, and they aren't together either, not that they ever where a couple.Just tell your friend what you don't like, and settle it that way.Revenge is not the way.

Answer 6

I'll tell you what you should do..invite your friend along tomorrow or cancel with him...Remember what he said about the physical thing...even if you do date him...there is a big, massive chance he will return to her.

Never underestimate physical attraction. You are setting yourself up for a major fall. You will lose your friend and he wont be staying long...If she does flirt with your guys ...she is no friend...best to dump them both...never tolerate a friend flirting with your guy...that is betrayal of the worst kind...good luck...remember you deserve more than her cast off.

You don't need to pay her back for flirting with your guys...you are better than that...get rid of them...they are both bringing bad vibes into your life...fill your life with good people who know the meaning of loyalty

Answer 7

If you want to keep your friend, you are going to have to find a new guy to have a crush on. Don't let a guy ruin your friendship and that means keeping your kisses to yourself.

There are tons a guys out there, pick one without a girlfriend.

Answer 8

I would suggest you be perfectly honest with your friend. Tell her how you feel about her boyfriend and make sure she knows everything that has happened between you and him. Try to avoid being alone with her boyfriend to avoid anything physical happening between you two, never be with him without your friend.

Answer 9

First off, you should NOT getting involved with anyone your friend is. You are not a good friend and he is not a good boyfriend. Your friend should dump the both of you.

Answer 10

Girl! Look! Don't touch him. Don't even go near him! He is your friend's boyfriend. Revenge is a path no one should go down. Just STOP it. It's only going to end badly.

Answer 11

U just need to leave him along that is nasty and going with him is not worth losing a friendship over. Trust me it's not worth it so just leave him along.Good Luck!!!!!!!!!