Okay, well i have been going out with this guy for a little over a month i really do care about him and i would hate to losse him. Well last weekend me and him went to eat & when we finish i told him i was goning home. Well i went crusing with out telling him and well one of my friends ex boyfriends was there, we exchanged numbers.Well and the next day i told him to stop calling me and i told my friend what happened. My friend and I wounld always joke around saying Im gonna call your ex and say wats up before i had his number. Anyways I thought she didnt care at frist and well her so called friend told her i was messed up and that I wounld pull something like that and that i wasnt a ture friend, also that she was going to tell my boyfriend what had happened & that i was talking to some one else. Do you think i should tell my boyfriend wat happen?? Also do yall think i did wrong exchanging numbers.
2006-12-22 10:08:08 · 17 answers · asked by Me ★ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You probably shouldn't of exchanged numbers, but its not really a big deal. I wouldn't say a thing. If your boyfriend hears and asks you just say that your old boyfriend called and you told him not to call again.
Your friend needs to shut up and quit telling other people what you tell her! She doesn't sound like much of a friend.
Would telling your boyfriend really accomplish anything other than hurting him?
2006-12-22 10:13:47 · answer #1 · answered by honey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you did nothing wrong, you simply exchanged numbers with an old friend. You should tell your boyfriend, especially since it'll be a lot better coming from you than someone else; that'll only make you look guilty. Good luck.
2006-12-22 18:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by quizicalgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it was wrong of you to exchange numbers. First, because you don't ever date someone that your friend has. It's disrespectful. Second, you have a boyfriend. If you want to give out your number to other guys, don't commit to one person.
2006-12-22 18:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by H o n є y 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really cared for your boyfriend you wouldnt be out getting other guys numbers... If you really told the other guy to stop calling you then I would tell your guy about it and hope he understands.
2006-12-22 18:14:44 · answer #4 · answered by Michael G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be best to be honest with your boyfriend. But at the same time,he has to be secure enough in himself not to think that because you gave another guy your number that anything fishy was going on.
2006-12-22 18:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by mopjky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u chould tell ur bf b4 some1 else does, & i dont think it was 2 wrong 2 exchange #s, but since it bothed every1 so much i wont do it agian
2006-12-22 18:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on what u were thinking when u exchanged #'s..and i do think that u should tell ur bf and clear the air bc its always better to be honest.
2006-12-22 18:13:58 · answer #7 · answered by onetwothree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm! Do you think your boyfriend would be in the wrong if he did it to you? Would you want him to tell you? Think about it twice before taking action.
2006-12-22 18:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you were wrong for taking the number. burn it now. then tell your bf what happen. it's better to come clean now instead of one of your so called friends forcing you to do it later.
2006-12-22 18:11:52 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just tell him that you went, if he trusts you it shouldn't matter whether or not you talk to him or hang out with him, but if you keep it from him you wont have his trust anymore if he finds out from someone else, and without trust theres not a relationship
2006-12-22 18:14:25 · answer #10 · answered by Her 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋